Jul 14, 2005 07:31
Hello To All,
Now this will not be a full update but just so you all now I am alive and well and employeed. But I would like to pose a question to all you out there. I was talking to a friend of mine and she is very sexually active and she referred to herself as a slut. Now she has safe, consentual sex and she is slut as being a positive term. If you understand what I mean. But in my eyes a slut is not something you want to aspire too, and I will give definitions of my scale of sexuality in a moment. But I wanted to pose the question to you all, what do you think is the correct term for someone who enjoys her sexuality and just loves to fuck.
On my scale the highest "title" if you will is Whore. I know what the definition is according to Webster's but I dont care. On my scale a Whore is anyone who just enjoys sex, all forms of sex. From masturbation, to phone sex, to flashing your tits in public, to who knows what. Now that doesnt make her or him an easy lay or anything, not at all. A Whore should be respected and treated just like anyother male or female, she just enjoys the naughtier things in life.
A Slut to me is someone who uses sex to get her way, or for other purposes. Like banging a boss to get ahead at a job. Or someone makes you mad so you go bang that person's boyfriend or girlfriend. I can not stand anyone using something like sex or blackmail or race or things like that to get a head in life. And sex should be pleasure, not a tool. Slut also falls under any girl who lets a guy use her and he calls it affection. I know not everyone has balls of steel. But never, EVER let anyone force you to do anything you dont want to do. Now if you life is threatened that is a whole nother story. Let me know what you all think.
Later
BadQuartermane