Mar 16, 2004 16:25
Is that such a hard thing? Last time, meeting the person really helped me. But when it has to be a shady-"oh you won't like her"-situation, then I'm not happy. It's really not an unreasonable request!! I'm sorry ladies, but if your man/woman wanted to go hang out w/ someone they had slept with in the past, who's made it clear that she would like them back, would you be ok with him going to her house at 9pm to hang out for a couple of hours? So she can give him the bottle of wine she has for him? All I asked is that they don't hang out at her house, go to a mall, go to a diner... but apparently that's too much to ask because she lives at home and her mother won't let her go anywhere. So I said FINE, I'll deal with that, but let me meet her... but NO, it's "Nevermind, I just won't go, I'll stop being friends with her and all of the rest of my friends and live life a hermit" If it's that or I meet her ... then fine, I'll go for dating a hermit. Because I'm sorry, but it's REALLY FUCKING SHADY if there's a HUGE issue w/ me just fucking meeting her!! You've told me on several occasions that she cheated on her current boyfriend, so who's to say she would care about trying to get you back in bed?
Am I just being stupid? We have this fight all the time. He doesn't seem to realize how inappropriate that is!! OK, so I hang out w/ my ex boyfriend, but 1: neither of us have made any attempt to get each other back 2:I've got my boyfriend, and my ex has a girlfriend that he's very happy with. and 3: we dont' hang out until 4 in the FUCKING morning at his house w/ no one else home!!!
Men can be really fucking stupid, but I think this takes the cake! He thinks that me now knowing that he slept with her (thanks to Ray)makes me more jealous, but what he doesn't realize is that I FIGURED THAT ONE OUT ALREADY!! I already knew they had slept together. Is this why he won't tell me who else he's slept with? He says it's because there's no point, I'll never meet them... but you know what... I'd still like to fucking know. Because if one day I come down with some fucked up STD, I'd really like to know how I got it.
Whatever! I fucking hate men sometimes, they bring a whole new definition to the word "moron"!!!