Some serious advice needed.

[darkknight0618]

I wont say our sex is bad. We just have this problem. OK. Me and my BF have a great sex life except for one thing. I'm a versatile top. I do most of the topping but I like to bottom every now and then. Well, my BF tries but he just can't last that long. Now you may be thinking the he only last about 4-5 mins. I wish. Try 30 secs max. We bareback

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[frenchie7]

I'm not a guy... so you can disregard this if you want.

My boyfriend has the same problem so now he masturbates a few hours before he knows we'll have sex. Makes him last longer. Not as sensitive you know? It's all I've got, but it works. Sometimes he's gotta do it twice that day before we sex it up.

[st_reinnovate]

so, im not a member of this community, but if you press up with two fingers in the area between the scrotum and anus there is a area right around the middle that will give and go up a bit more. If you press there before ejaculation you will orgasam, but not ejaculate and almost always keep your erection. I would suggest experimenting during masterbation as it takes a few times to get it right.

also, some people say a cock ring helps

[englishinjapan]

Those two gave great advice. You could also just let him cum right at the start and then keep fooling around. After a while, I'm sure he'll get hard again so he can really do you. If he's not up for that, you can have him do you with a toy while he works on getting more control.

[lordalfredhenry]

I'm with the 2nd round idea. It might take a little time after 1st cumming though. Refractory period is average 30 minutes-ish.

Weird as this might seem, distraction with straight porn....it worked with one guy I know. For that matter, if there's any bi-tendency at all here, stamina can be practiced easily here. Women are looser and more resilient and sex just tends to take a long time there. I'm not bi but am bi-experienced as a former closet case and most guys say I have excessive stamina. (don't cum soon enough) I attribute this to being with women. If that's not going to work, try reducing visuals/dark room, and practice more. After I first came out, anal sex was this problem of having the boner and orgasm peaking around the same time. After more experience and getting more used to (not necessarily jaded but at least more used to the hotness of it all), it was easier.

This issue can make a comeback periodically but I think practice will help.