You're why the big bad wolf can't have nice things!
You play a werewolf in a structured, highly hierarchical pack. Your wolf is in the lower rank. You're friends with another low-rank wolf. Your friend, let's call her A, is in a relationship with an upper-rank wolf. We'll call him C. Character A, due to the things in her life that happened between infection and joining this particular pack, isn't big on the touchy feely, a fact well known to, well, everybody. She's grown close to a few members of the pack and gotten comfortable enough to let them into her personal space, but she's still wiggy about strangers. Your wolf, though, is the most touchy-feely creature on the planet. But A's adapted to that.
What she hasn't adapted to is the new wolf - a mid-ranking one - you brought into the pack the night of a dominance challenge, who nobody in the pack knew, and who got into the face of a high-ranking wolf and then decided the best thing to do was hug A, who didn't know him from Adam. You and the newbie are lucky A didn't wig on you then and there. Her SO and her big brother were both in attendance and both might have decided the newbie looked like dinner.
But this isn't the problem. No, the problem is that both you and the newbie have begun snarking IC in thoughts (which nobody can respond to since none of the wolves can read minds) because C, when catching an unfamiliar male scent on his SO, decided he needed to have a talk with the newbie about boundaries. You've now decided that C is a dangerous wolf with no self-control (because of a chat!), that the newbie is innocent, and the best way to deal with the entire situation is for you and the newbie both to treat A like a pack of dynamite with a lit fuse in case C decides to kill you both in your sleep or something.
And you won't shut up about it! You carry on about in thoughts, in conversations, in OOC conversations. You've accused C of acting grossly out of character - for a wolf - by responding to a strange male's scent on his "mate" with a completely appropriate growl and a simple, civil request not to get grabby in the future. You accused A of reacting "gleefully" to C's growling about finding the scent on her (she didn't. She reacted in a shocked, confused, and apologetic fashion because she initially thought she'd done something wrong. The scene's right there, in the room, if you need a refresher). You're rewriting history left and right to serve you and newbie's point of view on this issue, and there are a growing number of players that are becoming increasing tired of the BS from the both of you.
I'm starting to wonder if you aren't trying to alienate newbie's character just so you can have him all to yourself and he can't escape. You've only thrown your girl at every new male wolf that came into the pack since you arrived and were whining just before newbie arrived that your girl didn't have anyone. Gee, I wonder why I might've come to the above suspicion.
Oh. And the dry humping on the couch in the pack living room while other people are there, in the room, trying to carry on a conversation with you and each other was kind of creepy. So was asking A's character to stay and babysit the two of you to "make you behave." Just sayin'.