Rudeness, you're doing it right!
Dude,
Asking the admin of a new game if they have an instant messaging service so you can speak to them because you "have experience running an RP site" and you have some suggestions just comes off as douchebaggery.
Asking the admin of a new game if they have an instant messaging service so you can speak to them because you "have experience running an RP site" and you have some suggestions just comes off as douchebaggery.