"You don't even know me anymore because you chose, among some others who I called my best friends for six years, to become a psychopath."
I'm sorry, but I'm not going to take that comment lightly. What a load of crap! What kind of nonsense are you typing here? I ask you, who the hell "decides" to become a psychopath?! By saying shit like this, you are proving so many things that she said. Your dear friends didn't just up and decide to become fucking crazy and hate you for no reason. I was blinded to it for a really long time, because I really did care about you a lot and always tried to give you the benefit of the doubt. In retrospect though, I was doing more harm then good.
You're not some poor innocent girl who was all of a sudden tossed aside by her friends that sudden became crazy psychopaths. Looking back, I'm honestly amazed this didn't happen sooner then it did. I stood up for you for so long, but I will not here.
Good luck finding people who will care about you more genuinely and put up with more bullshit then Megz and Stina. That's no simple task.
I wonder how many of your new friends who know squat about any of this stuff are gonna call me some huge asshole.
This really pissed me off Dara. And you know, that's no easy task.
Speaking out of place here, as I was never part of this but....Being civil about this would be to forget it, and move on. I can't believe all of you let go of years and years and YEARS of friendship and love over something like this. Bringing up that one incident over and over just makes it uglier for no good reason, blowing it out of proportion needlessly.
We've all grown older, and I'd like to think that you can all find the maturity to forgive and forget, and remember what amazing friends you use to be.
I really think you should consider what you just said. That the bad things stick out more than the good... That's true in everything about life, Meg. Now, I'm not asking you to "forgive and forget" if that's not what you want to do. Really, I'm not, but I do think you should consider this. The things that hurt are the things that stick, I should know. I'm not saying that I'm right, or that you're right, or whatever... but yeah. In general in life, people tend to take for granted the good and remember the bad, because we always *expect* things to be good, and when we're hurt, we remember. So I'm sorry if you think I was a bad friend and that you wasted six years being best friends with me. I'm not sorry for being yours. I was driving yesterday and I was really upset about this whole thing, and Vitamin C's graduation song came on, and it made me think about how we always used to write PAGES in each others yearbooks about how no matter what we'd always be friends, we'd graduate together and not lose touch in college... Lately I've come to realize [not necessarily solely because of this] that promises are as fragile as emotions, and that scares the shit out of me. If I can't trust the people I care about, who can I trust?
So really, Meg, if you don't want to talk about it anymore because it's immature, and I *agree* with you, then why are we still talking about it? If you and Stina don't want to be my friend anymore, I'll respect that. I just ask that you respect me in return and stop talking about me, and this incident. It doesn't make *any* of us feel good [as far as I can tell].
I hope to whatever higher entity you believe in that you don't mean this. I always thought that you guys had one of the strongest friendships I've ever seen. Were you really pretending to love her for all those years?
I'm sorry, but I'm not going to take that comment lightly. What a load of crap! What kind of nonsense are you typing here? I ask you, who the hell "decides" to become a psychopath?! By saying shit like this, you are proving so many things that she said. Your dear friends didn't just up and decide to become fucking crazy and hate you for no reason. I was blinded to it for a really long time, because I really did care about you a lot and always tried to give you the benefit of the doubt. In retrospect though, I was doing more harm then good.
You're not some poor innocent girl who was all of a sudden tossed aside by her friends that sudden became crazy psychopaths. Looking back, I'm honestly amazed this didn't happen sooner then it did. I stood up for you for so long, but I will not here.
Good luck finding people who will care about you more genuinely and put up with more bullshit then Megz and Stina. That's no simple task.
I wonder how many of your new friends who know squat about any of this stuff are gonna call me some huge asshole.
This really pissed me off Dara. And you know, that's no easy task.
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We've all grown older, and I'd like to think that you can all find the maturity to forgive and forget, and remember what amazing friends you use to be.
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So really, Meg, if you don't want to talk about it anymore because it's immature, and I *agree* with you, then why are we still talking about it? If you and Stina don't want to be my friend anymore, I'll respect that. I just ask that you respect me in return and stop talking about me, and this incident. It doesn't make *any* of us feel good [as far as I can tell].
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I hope to whatever higher entity you believe in that you don't mean this. I always thought that you guys had one of the strongest friendships I've ever seen. Were you really pretending to love her for all those years?
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