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[babyirish219]

Major Dilemma...ok i have a really BIG dilemma...if you couldn't til'?? Ok today i wrote in this guys year book. And i told him that he was really funny and that would get him far in life. but i was just bein' really nice cuz he's a friend and what not so he IMed me today and we were talkin heres how my dilemma started Can i just say i knew this

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[mannah__]

Generally, guys that say that you can cheat on them are just desperate to be with you and they're totally bluffing. If you did really cheat on him, he'd probably get just as pissed as any other guy would and end up dumping you. As far as not liking him, LOL, it's sad because I can see why you wouldn't just from that brief stint of IM conversation. You told him that you didn't like him, which was good, and then you continually told him that you didn't care to have a boyfriend, also good, but he probably just got the wrong impression because you were handing him hypothetical situations [ i.e. "If I did cheat on you, what would you do?" ] and led him to believe that you really just weren't sure of how you felt. This guy needs you to give it to him straight-up. Just be like, "I don't like you at all. I don't want to date you. I'm not interested. You're just not my type." or something instead of trying to skirt around it. It'll hurt his feelings initially, but I think it will benefit you best in the long run.

:] Hope this helped.