Jul 12, 2005 20:35
*.. And Jason .. Back to your Journal - Appreciate your thoughts about working things out between me and Jade. She is a good friend and I do value her friendship. It's just incredibly mindboggling why she's flipped out over me talking to Tyler. The fact is she has a serious boyfriend and she can't handle one of her friends getting close to one of her old boyfriends (emphasis on FoRmEr boyfriend) i just don't get it ... Ya know I remember when she talked to Max after we had our thing in the fall of my freshmen year (before we dated again later that year) and i didn't make a big deal out of it.. afterall at that point i thought we would never get back together and we were just the past.. .. To me it comes across like any boy she's set eyes on is hers - and even though she has a boyfriend other people can't talk or hang out with them without her getting mad. I still can't believe she accused me of backstabbing her and screwing her over for a guy. Now, if I tried to do something with Tommy then yes i would see that as backstabbing her and screwing her over (which obviously a good friend in her right mind would never do).. but I'm just getting closer to Tyler who I honestly thought was a non issue anymore with her because she's with Tommy. She's made a big deal in her journal about what a model friend should be like ... and I think I've fit that description to a T. You seem to be concerned that we're not talking ... well she's the one who apparently has a problem with me so why would I try to explain things to her when I don't get why she's pissed off in the first place. And if she thought her IM to me was going to spark a conversation she has a weird way of inviting discussion because i took what she said as a statement or accusation not like she wanted to talk. And also if she said she called me then my phone must be seriously experiencing some technical difficulties because there is no record of an incoming call from her since Sunday before my so called birthday party .. and tip for the day: sometimes it takes more than one ring to connect with another phone. Now that that's off my chest .. this is how i see the situation and if this isn't how she sees things she knows how to reach me.