I'm very sure he treasures you. I guess too many things happened on his side as well. don't be discouraged. since u hv tried ur best to bring the 2 of them back together, it is enough. dont give urself too much pressure. and dont allow ppl's problems to become yours. a clear mind is impt if u wana do counselling.
and abt bitching...hahah. seriously, I hate it tt LJ has become a bitching tool for many. disagreements..conflicts..these r personal. it is between any 2 individuals. Words has its limitation. so, it is not possible for others to know wot exactly is happening between them. Best way to settle conflicts...do it the guys way!...meet up and trash out everything with one another in the presence if a mediator. do it online oni causes more misunderstanding.
well, since u hv done everything, don't be upset. hugs
yeap, self-control is a personal decision. The tongue is like a double edged sword. capable of edifing and destroying. with sharp words, it only takes seconds to open up profound wounds in people. To heal them, it could take years..or even decades. I reali love this saying.."sticks and stones may break bones, but sharp words can cut the soul...so deeply." May we all be reminded of tt.
and abt bitching...hahah. seriously, I hate it tt LJ has become a bitching tool for many. disagreements..conflicts..these r personal. it is between any 2 individuals. Words has its limitation. so, it is not possible for others to know wot exactly is happening between them. Best way to settle conflicts...do it the guys way!...meet up and trash out everything with one another in the presence if a mediator. do it online oni causes more misunderstanding.
well, since u hv done everything, don't be upset. hugs
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LJ is really very bitchy at times. Sigh.
Some hurtful words should be avoided but not everyone have that much self-control.
Yup i have no regrets cos i've tried my best and my conscience is clear. Thanks David :)
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so smart of David...
:P
Ray
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Very true.
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