Aug 04, 2005 20:35
ok so some shit has happen. my father called me this morning at five. he tells me my mother has lost her mind. he tells me she couldnt remember what year it was. the thing is she said it was 2500, 2050 and finally got it right after thinking about it. he says she has also been telling him he needs to go live here someone hes has to deal with him. its not that my mother is stupid, she just isnt the brightest. she has very often said the wrong things and after having to think of the right answer. most of the time it has something to do with numbers so that doesnt surprised me. after that he has been asking her questions about like that to get about the same result. the things is a couple of years ago he couldnt remember the day before. so that is bullshit. the thing about her telling him he needed to go live where people like nurses take care of him and deal with his bullshit is that she is right. i didnt think she would be able to put up with him for this long. the last thing he tells me about her losing her minds is her not wanting to come up here. he told me he wanted to see me before he dies so he got a plane ticket for the 7th of september and not waiting till i got time off from work after i have worked there for six months. he thought when she said she didnt want to come up here he thought she never wanted to come up here. now im not sure yet what the hell is going on with her but i think she meant she didnt want to this time. she cant just take off work just like that. hell that just have money to do what ever the hell they want and she know that much better then he does. she would wait till she could take off and me to be able to take off work while they where here. so no she didnt want to come up here really soon like in september but would want to when it was the best time. about him dying he is slowly because of his heart walls being to weak. he might not make it till i get time off but he has made it this far from so much. there is really no telling. my mother might have lost her mind because of all the stuff he put her through but that does not give his parents the right to say to him that he needs to get her to commit herself. they figure if her commits herself she can just check herself out. if i ever talk to them again im going to fucking go off on them. hell im never going to fucking talk to them ever again.
so after this phone call ive got really nothing to go on because he is fucking insane.
well i guess that is it for now. till this weekend when i can call them i will just have to sit on all this.