Saturday night. Sunday winds.

[b4uistand]

I went out last night. First time in a long time. I can't remember the last Saturday night I wasn't at home or a relative's place. Aren't I just the social butterfly?

I'll keep this short...

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[b4uistand]

There's another one! What does ^_^ mean?! Damn these new whatsamacallits! Damn them to hell! :P

About the girl... she's 27 (soon to be 28, mid-September) and I'm 24. Really not an issue, I know, and we've already talked about the age gap and [I think] concluded it's simply not an issue.

The weird part is, after about 30 minutes talking in the car on the way to Norton Street, and maybe 10 more minutes once we were there, SHE was telling ME we would just be friends!!! And she's all like, "We'll just start as friends and maybe see where it goes", and I'm like, "Yeah I'm totally cool with that, I wouldn't have it any other way after my last relationship" etc. (BTW, something I found somewhat disturbing; She seemed very interested in my past relationships. Is that something I should be concerned about?)

So when she calls me the very next day to go back to the movies, and also calls me later that same day because "I'm bored so I thought I'd call you and just talk"... well, I'm wondering what kind of friends she wants to be :o|

I can honestly say I cannot date this girl. The first night out with her, and already I've discovered half a dozen things about her I'm really not liking. I could definitely handle them in moderation, but to be dating her... NO!

After the second phone call on Sunday afternoon, I convinced her we should just chat on the Internet. Now this girl has a DIPLOMA in IT, Web Design. So when I have to talk her through how to load Windows Messenger, and download and install Ad-Aware, I get a little concerned! She wanted me to hold her hand the whole way through, from downloading it to installing it to getting updates to doing a full system scan. I really didn't feel I needed to help her. It bothered me.

Now I'm starting to wonder if it was a mistake to send her that SMS a few days ago. But then I'd probably be wondering "what if", and I hate that. So now I must deal with the consequences of my actions. Total unYayness.

And now I just don't feel like talking about windy days. I'm done.

[witchyangel]

Again, it's not that hard. ^_^ is another smiley, the ^ are the eyes and the _ is the mouth. It's like a Japanese comic book smiley face.

She obviously likes you. And she probably had every intention of being 'just friends' at the beginning, but then she realised how much she liked you and out the window went that idea. I can guarantee you that she knew exactly what she was doing with Messenger, but playing dumb scored her some extra time with you.

And no I wouldn't be worried about her being overly interested in your past relationships. I love to know how people work and everything about them, so I ask a lot of questions (although I do make sure before that the other person doesn't mind, if it's something personal). But this can be interpreted as nosey by some, even though it's not at all.

Just let the poor dear down gently, and reassure her as much as possible. Good luck with it ;)