inspired by Arashel...

[azurephoenix]

I'm even going to do a survey, or part of it at least. I like remembering.

Anyway Arashel posted something in her journal and I commented and its something I have strong feelings about so heres the exchange.

It makes sense now when Chris said, "There is someone out there for you, so many others guys out there so much better than me."I don't mean

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[elfin_singer]

It's not just women who say that. Guys say it, too. That's pretty much the run around I got from Jason earlier this year. He not only said it verbally, but his actions said it too. Yeah, he started dating this other girl, even before he ended it with me....if you could say that.

I don't know if you read my post in the christ4illness community about what happened.

http://www.livejournal.com/community/christ4illness/197305.html#cutid1

But I can pretty much say that it's him that was good enough. There are things that I can see as clear as day that aren't right with him back then and tried to confront him about it. Of course, he wouldn't listen. Because I didn't "agree" with him about this thing, he didn't want me but for one thing. And though, I could see this problem, I still loved him. I know, though, that I'm in the right about his problem.

So, I think that when someone says that or does something like that. It's probably not because of the person their rejecting, but because of their own insecurties, etc. Even so, one can't help but feel rejected. And in my case, both rejected and insulted.