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Kurt turned up yesterday a little early to pick up Arielle, which is fine. What isn't fine however, is that he organised for an estate agent to come to my home at 10:30am without even asking/telling me beforehand! Too bad if I had plans, (which I did). Too bad if I hadn't yet done the housework, (which I hadn't). Too bad if I was still in my pj's, (which I wasn't). Just too bad about everything. He told me at that time as well that another is coming at 2pm the next day. Again....too bad if I was out or had plans.
Needless to say, I was not happy and expressed as much. I told him that I would make sure I wasn't home at 2pm today so that he couldn't bring someone around and that maybe that'll teach him to be courteous and ask first next time.
Honestly.....I cannot believe him!
In the end, the guy yesterday never turned up so after an hour of waiting I told Kurt that I wasn't waiting any longer. I then also decided last night that I'd let him bring the other valuer around today, but it's the last time.
The stupid thing is, this is all a waste of time because on my solicitors advice, I am going to try to buy Kurt out, (as hard as that is going to be at the moment on my p/t income). To do this I need to get an independant evaluation and it costs around $2000+. Kurt is trying to avoid doing that because he doesn't want to pay half. An agents valuation is useless if the house never gets put on the market. After all, the house is only worth whatever people will pay for it. He is the one that chose to do this now, against what we'd prevously agreed. He is the one that went to a solicitor first, forcing me to do the same. He is the one choosing to sell when the market is down, so really, he can't complain that he now is going to lose money because of it.
Right now, I am just about at my stress threshold. I don't know how much more of this I can take. I go back to uni this week as well and my timetable is f*cked....so I am going to have to do a lot of sweet-talking to change either work or uni so that I can still work my 3 days a week. This is even more critical now if I have to try to buy Kurt out in the middle of everything. I am also late with enrolling Arielle into school and I just found out that before and after school care is $29 per day, (on top of school fees)! That's an extra $145 per week that I have to try to find.
I really need to get a f/t teaching job next year ASAP. It needs to be in a good school so that I can have Arielle go to the same school that I'm teaching at, (that'll save me that $145 p/w).
I have extreme neck, shoulder and back pain at the moment and no time or money to do anything about it. I'm sure it's stress related as much as anything else.
Yes....woe is me right now.
And yes....I realise I have a lot to be thankful about in my life, but I am entitled to vent every now and then....and this is my vent!
I also can't help but still feel a lot of guilt about what happened in my relationship with Kurt and that this is now Karma coming to get me. I know he did a lot wrong too, but so did I.
Anyway....whatever....
Needless to say, I was not happy and expressed as much. I told him that I would make sure I wasn't home at 2pm today so that he couldn't bring someone around and that maybe that'll teach him to be courteous and ask first next time.
Honestly.....I cannot believe him!
In the end, the guy yesterday never turned up so after an hour of waiting I told Kurt that I wasn't waiting any longer. I then also decided last night that I'd let him bring the other valuer around today, but it's the last time.
The stupid thing is, this is all a waste of time because on my solicitors advice, I am going to try to buy Kurt out, (as hard as that is going to be at the moment on my p/t income). To do this I need to get an independant evaluation and it costs around $2000+. Kurt is trying to avoid doing that because he doesn't want to pay half. An agents valuation is useless if the house never gets put on the market. After all, the house is only worth whatever people will pay for it. He is the one that chose to do this now, against what we'd prevously agreed. He is the one that went to a solicitor first, forcing me to do the same. He is the one choosing to sell when the market is down, so really, he can't complain that he now is going to lose money because of it.
Right now, I am just about at my stress threshold. I don't know how much more of this I can take. I go back to uni this week as well and my timetable is f*cked....so I am going to have to do a lot of sweet-talking to change either work or uni so that I can still work my 3 days a week. This is even more critical now if I have to try to buy Kurt out in the middle of everything. I am also late with enrolling Arielle into school and I just found out that before and after school care is $29 per day, (on top of school fees)! That's an extra $145 per week that I have to try to find.
I really need to get a f/t teaching job next year ASAP. It needs to be in a good school so that I can have Arielle go to the same school that I'm teaching at, (that'll save me that $145 p/w).
I have extreme neck, shoulder and back pain at the moment and no time or money to do anything about it. I'm sure it's stress related as much as anything else.
Yes....woe is me right now.
And yes....I realise I have a lot to be thankful about in my life, but I am entitled to vent every now and then....and this is my vent!
I also can't help but still feel a lot of guilt about what happened in my relationship with Kurt and that this is now Karma coming to get me. I know he did a lot wrong too, but so did I.
Anyway....whatever....