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I'm feeling very pent up and frustrated today. I have a bad case of cabin fever to say the least. I feel like the package we were sold in moving out here was not what was in the box upon arrival. I can't wait to extract myself from this situation and all of the negativity that is a result.It's really difficult to go from having your own place/space/ routine to leaving everything behind and moving in with someone else. Now everything revolves around their routines/space. We also come from very different backgrounds. The people we are staying with are very selfish, and have never actually had to work for anything, while we on the other hand have never had anything handed to us and had to grow up at a very young age. One of the people here has to have everything go her way whether it be at work or whatnot and if not she is unbearably moody. Welcome to life honey get used to it.
Add to that one of our roommates this girl's brother is here staying as well- he is a mutual friend of myself and my husband. He is also a "closet" alcoholic. I put it in quotation marks because he only thinks he hides it well. He sits in his room and drinks all day, never showers and irritates my dogs with incessant drunken cuddles and play. He drinks so much that my husband and I took back all of his empties and mix bottles to bottle depot and made $60! We had 5 garbage bags of empties. Anyways this is causing all manner of stress through out the house because everyone is irritated but no one will actually say anything to him. My husband has confronted him on the crumbling state of their friendship but other then that we feel it is not our place since we are guests here.
Hopefully once the new year gets here we will be out of here and we can wash our hands of all of this bullshit.
Add to that one of our roommates this girl's brother is here staying as well- he is a mutual friend of myself and my husband. He is also a "closet" alcoholic. I put it in quotation marks because he only thinks he hides it well. He sits in his room and drinks all day, never showers and irritates my dogs with incessant drunken cuddles and play. He drinks so much that my husband and I took back all of his empties and mix bottles to bottle depot and made $60! We had 5 garbage bags of empties. Anyways this is causing all manner of stress through out the house because everyone is irritated but no one will actually say anything to him. My husband has confronted him on the crumbling state of their friendship but other then that we feel it is not our place since we are guests here.
Hopefully once the new year gets here we will be out of here and we can wash our hands of all of this bullshit.