How do you know your in love?
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(SKIP ALL THIS ON LOVE and go to the bottom where it says girls, if your a girl and read)
(SKIP ALL THIS ON LOVE and go to the bottom where its says guys, if your a guy and read)
[Um I dont know what to say if your not a guy or girl...um....um]
This four letter word. Until you feel it, you dont honestly know it is.
The Merriam-Webster Dictionary says this
Love:1 a (1) : strong affection for another arising out of kinship or personal ties (2) : attraction based on sexual desire : affection and tenderness felt by lovers (3) : affection based on admiration, benevolence, or common interests b : an assurance of love
2 : warm attachment, enthusiasm, or devotion
3 a : the object of attachment, devotion, or admiration b (1) : a beloved person : DARLING -- often used as a term of endearment (2) British -- used as an informal term of address
4 a : unselfish loyal and benevolent concern for the good of another: as (1) : the fatherly concern of God for humankind (2) : brotherly concern for others b : a person's adoration of God
5 : a god or personification of love
6 : an amorous episode : LOVE AFFAIR
7 : the sexual embrace : COPULATION
8 : a score of zero (as in tennis)
9 capitalized, Christian Science : GOD
- at love : holding one's opponent scoreless in tennis
- in love : inspired by affection
Alright, but words in no way can explain love. Define what I feel right as of now.
They say you know when your in love when you know. And I know theres alot of couples starting out there so here is my advice.
Doesnt matter if you know your in love or not. Look, if you feel so much for the other person, honestly truly care, and what matters to you is in the end she is happy, and even point where to make her happy you have to be unhappy than thats amazing. You have something many people dont seem to find the time to share.
Love, look its nice to have it, to be in it, and for me its better than these short fling relationships that are meaningless. Short fling relationships, with the right person who knows it might develop into the wrong thing.
Girls here my perspectives, an insight onto guys and all: Guys can be seperated into two basic cateogories.
First is the ones that want just sex. Yes, thats all they care for, they will act like they care for you in another way, but when it comes down to spending time to together do you realize all he does is want to touch you, and feel you up, and that it tends to be his pleasure? Yeah, unless if you want a man all about sex, one night stand thing, alright, but you better have a heart that is disconnected and cold, that its just for sexual pleasure and nothing more. That isnt love, thats just 'let's fuck because am horny' deal, well if thats fine with you go do that, but its not for me. But going back to that, there are signs if that true. If the time you share you never talk, communication is important, and if the guy feels he needs to communicate through touch well he not investing more energy to connect to you personally. Honestly what will you do if there wasnt a kiss, a hug, caresses and touch? Its important to develop the feelings as a foundation for sex and all that when your ready, if you jump into it, you skip so much there thats important. And these relationships are flings, they just like fuck and go, and if thats what you want your heart to go through then be my guest. Its gonna be short and brutal, bang and go.
Second is ones that of a long term relationship, guys will spend the time to get to know you, and it will tend to be starting as just friends, talking, and just spenting time together to the point you grow together. The guy wont care for touch, if anything he wants to cuddle in the end of the day, just to feel you around him, know your there. He wont be the one gonna push things through physically if it reaches that point, and will be able to compromise, and just let things flow. He realizes that in the end its not sex that matters, not the kisses, its what matters here inside of each others hearts, what you feel. Yes your happiness is what matters, and it makes for a wonderful relationship when both are truly after each others happiness, and both willing to work together for it. Remember just because the guy is there, and has these traits its you too thats gotta put your back into it and haul the rest of it. Its mutual.
Guys:
Am sick and tired of hearing of people hitting their woman, using them as just sex tools, and othe r shiet, they honestly dont deserve it.
And then again, we all can think of at least one or two girls that well yeah...words cant explain that either eh.
Girls to us, well if your the sexual dominating, all for sex, doesnt matter how they make you feel so dont read if you are.
But yeah, home boy and I had many talks about this, girls really make us do what we do. Why is it we try to get a really nice car, to pick up girls, why is it we dress nice, no its not because we feel like it its to impress you. I mean there certains things that we need.
And its frustrating for us, guys, to deal with girls that god are just teases!
Dont you hate that? Teases, dont fall of that all I can say, I mean sure explore your options if your single, unless your into one night or short term, bang and go, then go for it, but if not just dont even try. They're heartbreakers, oppose to us players.
And some reading this maybe players, all I can say is I hate you. Yeah hate, because you dont understand how many times I have given advice to girls about players, and what to do. Am stick and tired of hearing guys trying to have sex, but the girl saids no, yet you continue to push it further. Tired of hearing and seeing a girl mistreated because his man has other piroities, and guy that isnt loyal, gonna lie and backstab her, and all he wanted was just sex. How hearts been broken, tears shed because of you. Same goes for heartbreakers, am not sexist both of us have problems.
So yeah I am just ranting, take care peeps, am out to bed...
(SKIP ALL THIS ON LOVE and go to the bottom where it says girls, if your a girl and read)
(SKIP ALL THIS ON LOVE and go to the bottom where its says guys, if your a guy and read)
[Um I dont know what to say if your not a guy or girl...um....um]
This four letter word. Until you feel it, you dont honestly know it is.
The Merriam-Webster Dictionary says this
Love:1 a (1) : strong affection for another arising out of kinship or personal ties (2) : attraction based on sexual desire : affection and tenderness felt by lovers (3) : affection based on admiration, benevolence, or common interests b : an assurance of love
2 : warm attachment, enthusiasm, or devotion
3 a : the object of attachment, devotion, or admiration b (1) : a beloved person : DARLING -- often used as a term of endearment (2) British -- used as an informal term of address
4 a : unselfish loyal and benevolent concern for the good of another: as (1) : the fatherly concern of God for humankind (2) : brotherly concern for others b : a person's adoration of God
5 : a god or personification of love
6 : an amorous episode : LOVE AFFAIR
7 : the sexual embrace : COPULATION
8 : a score of zero (as in tennis)
9 capitalized, Christian Science : GOD
- at love : holding one's opponent scoreless in tennis
- in love : inspired by affection
Alright, but words in no way can explain love. Define what I feel right as of now.
They say you know when your in love when you know. And I know theres alot of couples starting out there so here is my advice.
Doesnt matter if you know your in love or not. Look, if you feel so much for the other person, honestly truly care, and what matters to you is in the end she is happy, and even point where to make her happy you have to be unhappy than thats amazing. You have something many people dont seem to find the time to share.
Love, look its nice to have it, to be in it, and for me its better than these short fling relationships that are meaningless. Short fling relationships, with the right person who knows it might develop into the wrong thing.
Girls here my perspectives, an insight onto guys and all: Guys can be seperated into two basic cateogories.
First is the ones that want just sex. Yes, thats all they care for, they will act like they care for you in another way, but when it comes down to spending time to together do you realize all he does is want to touch you, and feel you up, and that it tends to be his pleasure? Yeah, unless if you want a man all about sex, one night stand thing, alright, but you better have a heart that is disconnected and cold, that its just for sexual pleasure and nothing more. That isnt love, thats just 'let's fuck because am horny' deal, well if thats fine with you go do that, but its not for me. But going back to that, there are signs if that true. If the time you share you never talk, communication is important, and if the guy feels he needs to communicate through touch well he not investing more energy to connect to you personally. Honestly what will you do if there wasnt a kiss, a hug, caresses and touch? Its important to develop the feelings as a foundation for sex and all that when your ready, if you jump into it, you skip so much there thats important. And these relationships are flings, they just like fuck and go, and if thats what you want your heart to go through then be my guest. Its gonna be short and brutal, bang and go.
Second is ones that of a long term relationship, guys will spend the time to get to know you, and it will tend to be starting as just friends, talking, and just spenting time together to the point you grow together. The guy wont care for touch, if anything he wants to cuddle in the end of the day, just to feel you around him, know your there. He wont be the one gonna push things through physically if it reaches that point, and will be able to compromise, and just let things flow. He realizes that in the end its not sex that matters, not the kisses, its what matters here inside of each others hearts, what you feel. Yes your happiness is what matters, and it makes for a wonderful relationship when both are truly after each others happiness, and both willing to work together for it. Remember just because the guy is there, and has these traits its you too thats gotta put your back into it and haul the rest of it. Its mutual.
Guys:
Am sick and tired of hearing of people hitting their woman, using them as just sex tools, and othe r shiet, they honestly dont deserve it.
And then again, we all can think of at least one or two girls that well yeah...words cant explain that either eh.
Girls to us, well if your the sexual dominating, all for sex, doesnt matter how they make you feel so dont read if you are.
But yeah, home boy and I had many talks about this, girls really make us do what we do. Why is it we try to get a really nice car, to pick up girls, why is it we dress nice, no its not because we feel like it its to impress you. I mean there certains things that we need.
And its frustrating for us, guys, to deal with girls that god are just teases!
Dont you hate that? Teases, dont fall of that all I can say, I mean sure explore your options if your single, unless your into one night or short term, bang and go, then go for it, but if not just dont even try. They're heartbreakers, oppose to us players.
And some reading this maybe players, all I can say is I hate you. Yeah hate, because you dont understand how many times I have given advice to girls about players, and what to do. Am stick and tired of hearing guys trying to have sex, but the girl saids no, yet you continue to push it further. Tired of hearing and seeing a girl mistreated because his man has other piroities, and guy that isnt loyal, gonna lie and backstab her, and all he wanted was just sex. How hearts been broken, tears shed because of you. Same goes for heartbreakers, am not sexist both of us have problems.
So yeah I am just ranting, take care peeps, am out to bed...