True anger is such a balm!
I wrote a note to Jeremy the same night I wrote my previous post. No, I'm not really suicidal. I don't have the right words to express how I felt, but something like 'taking a break from reality' is kinda close. I don't do drugs, so that's not really an option. ^_^
Meanwhile! I told him that I was seriously considering not being a single-mom anymore. I told him that if he'd like a chance to adopt Morna, he'd have to get a place of his own and not have polygamous relationships anymore.
Apparently, the whole 'I'm a father now' thing just never sunk in. He has no sense of duty and I am astounded at his lack of parental concern. His response is that it is evil, manipulative, and low for me to try to coerce him into changing his 'lifestyle' on a whim. He's only been poly for a few months, how the HELL is that a lifestyle? AKA: He's always been a cheater and I was the first person who caught him at it. Hoorah! Whatever. I think that he's proven his unworthiness as a father figure even at a distance.
Please people, your thoughts on this?
Meanwhile! I told him that I was seriously considering not being a single-mom anymore. I told him that if he'd like a chance to adopt Morna, he'd have to get a place of his own and not have polygamous relationships anymore.
Apparently, the whole 'I'm a father now' thing just never sunk in. He has no sense of duty and I am astounded at his lack of parental concern. His response is that it is evil, manipulative, and low for me to try to coerce him into changing his 'lifestyle' on a whim. He's only been poly for a few months, how the HELL is that a lifestyle? AKA: He's always been a cheater and I was the first person who caught him at it. Hoorah! Whatever. I think that he's proven his unworthiness as a father figure even at a distance.
Please people, your thoughts on this?