Another day in the Life..

[ayecey]

So I ended up sleeping pretty late.. It was amazing only my body is hating me right now. I watched a lot of the news today. I cannot believe that someone would go and shoot so many innocent people. I mean its sick... really SICK.. I cant imagine the pain and sorrow these people are feeling.. But Im praying for them

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[onelove_xx]

I have been in a relationship with my highschool sweetheart for eight years. I am monogamous to the core & then some. I make this VERY clear. & even still I have had so many problems & lost so many friendships because friends of mine, male or female, fell for me & couldn't get the fuck over it. Sure it sucks & I want to be the nice guy about it, but yanno what? It's not my fault that you like me, I'm not going to be a bitch about it until they make me & then I tell them outright, call a spade a spade, exactly how it's going to be. Either knock it the fuck off, because that will NEVER happen, not ever & they need to get rid of that idea. OR they'll lose a friend. Plain & simple.

I've tried the hard way & learned a valuable lesson time & time again because I couldn't understand the fact that their feelings are not my problem - primarily when they're being such a jerk about it. There is no nice way to go about a 'friend' who would put you through that. It is not fair, it is not your fault, & it is not your fucking problem. End of discussion. If they won't back down, you have to either enforce how it is or just be done with the person you thought was a friend.

I am so beyond fed up with losing 'friends' for this reason, but so be it. I don't have any patience for it left in me. There is a line, cross it & look the fuck out, cause I'm not having it; it's that simple.

GOOD LUCK, I feel your pain, girl.