one question always leads to another

Jun 07, 2005 18:15

why do some people say "you're not acting normal" when there really is no one set definition of what is normal? what is normal to one person could be crazy to another. therefore, i would have to say that normal does not exist ( Read more... )

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SOrrow endlessromantic June 8 2005, 06:34:17 UTC
Am I to believe that my girlfriend isnt sure that she is in love with me? Sadness sweeps over my soul..... :(

"Normal" is the collective agreement of societies on what is accepted and practiced by the majority. Therefore, normal varies depending on where you go, according to this theory. Those who try to be different than the norm eventually end up setting the new standard of normal. For example: Punk ROckers!!! Conformity happens whether we want it to or not. It cannot be avoided.
Im not sure about love being a manifestation of trust....Sure trust can be a backbone of love. But there are many different types of love. I dont know exactly what love is, but I do know that it is not just a feeling, its a choice, a commitment. If love was just a feeling then there would be virtually no lasting marriages. Its inevitable that when you are with someone for a long period of time that you will become irritated or distanced from them in some way. Thats where love being a choice comes in. The choice is working things out and not letting anything stand in between you and your relationship. If you expect to have a perfect relationship with no problems or fights....YOU ARE A FOOL!! Every argument, every fight, every bump in the road, strengthens a relationship.
As far as the fear of death. Yes, I am scared of death. But not to the point where I will stop living my life because of it. Cant say that I have any more feelings about it. Good questions sweets.

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