Creep-tastic behavior
I probably shouldn't be posting since I'm really emotional right now, but I have a problem and it's escalating and I need some advice.
So there's this creepy asshole who has been following me around on the internet for just over a year now, badgering me to finish a WIP. They've posted on my LJ, my A03, the Inception Kink meme and ff.net on a regular basis under the same name, Non_Nonny. I've started to erase them because you know what, I don't need that shit, but I do have emails of the incidents.
I've asked for them to stop and promised that the fic will be finished multiple times. They don't take that as an answer. One time, they started harassing me on the Inception kink_meme and the mods had to step in. I know they have me on email alerts because every time I post a fic on A03 or ff.net, they're there within a few minutes commenting rude-ass things and mentioning how I didn't finish the WiP. (It's Mr. Eames and the Third Eye)
I just got another message and I've had enough. Maybe it's because I lost my job and unemployment is jerking me around and filling out resumes really sucks -- normally I can just ignore this shit, but... Fuck. I don't deserve this shit. You know what the worst thing is? I've been working on that WiP on the side, or trying to, because I made a commitment to finish it, but every time I get the document open I just feel... sick inside. Because of this wack-job who has made this their personal agenda.
If I finish that WiP I'll be encouraging this behavior. If I set all of my profiles to block anon comments, they can just create a sock puppet and I'll be cutting off other people who may not have an account. (A03)
If I don't finish the WIP then that's unfair to me (because I do want to finish it) and all of the other cool people who liked to read it.
And you know what? It's just fucking fanfiction you stalking psychopath. How dare you make me make me feel sick and creeped out over it. How dare you.
8/13: Okay, so yesterday I reported what I could to LJ and ff.net (doubt it'll do any good, but hey, you never know) and I removed the story from ff.net and LJ. It can only be accessed from A03 now, and it's listed as complete as is with an explanation why. I feel terrible for those hoping for a happy ending for the fic, but... it's just a fic. My mental happiness is more important, honestly.
Thank you all who gave your thoughts and advice!
So there's this creepy asshole who has been following me around on the internet for just over a year now, badgering me to finish a WIP. They've posted on my LJ, my A03, the Inception Kink meme and ff.net on a regular basis under the same name, Non_Nonny. I've started to erase them because you know what, I don't need that shit, but I do have emails of the incidents.
I've asked for them to stop and promised that the fic will be finished multiple times. They don't take that as an answer. One time, they started harassing me on the Inception kink_meme and the mods had to step in. I know they have me on email alerts because every time I post a fic on A03 or ff.net, they're there within a few minutes commenting rude-ass things and mentioning how I didn't finish the WiP. (It's Mr. Eames and the Third Eye)
I just got another message and I've had enough. Maybe it's because I lost my job and unemployment is jerking me around and filling out resumes really sucks -- normally I can just ignore this shit, but... Fuck. I don't deserve this shit. You know what the worst thing is? I've been working on that WiP on the side, or trying to, because I made a commitment to finish it, but every time I get the document open I just feel... sick inside. Because of this wack-job who has made this their personal agenda.
If I finish that WiP I'll be encouraging this behavior. If I set all of my profiles to block anon comments, they can just create a sock puppet and I'll be cutting off other people who may not have an account. (A03)
If I don't finish the WIP then that's unfair to me (because I do want to finish it) and all of the other cool people who liked to read it.
And you know what? It's just fucking fanfiction you stalking psychopath. How dare you make me make me feel sick and creeped out over it. How dare you.
8/13: Okay, so yesterday I reported what I could to LJ and ff.net (doubt it'll do any good, but hey, you never know) and I removed the story from ff.net and LJ. It can only be accessed from A03 now, and it's listed as complete as is with an explanation why. I feel terrible for those hoping for a happy ending for the fic, but... it's just a fic. My mental happiness is more important, honestly.
Thank you all who gave your thoughts and advice!