Relationships become very complicated very quickly, don't they?
The last time I posted in here, I had just been dumped. But since then I have met a really nice guy, and I am starting to develop some serious feelings for him. We've been dating for about three months now, and I really like what he offers. I would like to move to serious dating with him, and I have told him that. The great thing is that his
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I'll be the first to admit that the bf doesn't exactly fit the profile of the type of guy I was expecting to date, but once I realized I had chemistry with him I said, "Maybe degree and all of that doesn't matter as much as I thought it did..." We each have other things we are looking to compromise and work around to make things flow as smoothly as possible. He votes left, I don't. I want to ultimately start a family with the right guy, he doesn't. I'm brilliant with numbers, he's brilliant with creative stuff. He works at night, I work during the day. We have differences, but we meet in the middle, or at least we try to, and it works out.
As for #3 down there, I'm still working on that. I left a prior LT relationship with a lack of confidence in my dating abilities and all of that (yet I had no lack of confidence in my professional success). I'm doing better at loving myself and recognizing that I deserve a loving, available partner who loves me for me. Its just that I've had a few bad experiences where I wasn't enough though, and I guess that's where that is coming form: that who I naturally am won't be enough to win him (or many other men) over.
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