No gagging!

[m_lo_ol_m]

OK, since the gay sex tips LJ community is major fail, mind if I ask a question here? No? I didn't think so. :)

How do I get used to the taste and feel of dick and cum so I don't gag? I'd really, really like to be able to give decent, if not good, head someday, but despite my eagerness, I can't seem to overcum it. I've even tried to experiment with

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[suitablyemoname]

I'm always a bit curious why people put so much emphasis on eating the cum after a blowjob.

Do you really think the other guy is going to go "We've spent the last few weeks flirting, the last day building up to this, the last 40 minutes doing foreplay, the last 20 minutes wanking each other off, and you've had my cock down your throat for the last 10, but despite all this trusting and planning and working up to things and the sheer intimacy of letting you put the most sensitive and personal part of my body between your teeth for ten minutes, because you refused to swallow my jizz, IT'S ALL OVER FOREVER"?

[emh4ever]

I've never understood the appeal of swallowing, myself (and I can't swallow myself ;D)...

[m_lo_ol_m]

I don't know what others think, but I'm not that short sighted. There's a certain eucharistic desire I have to take in the essence of someone you adore and make them part of you.

[sourdick]

Looks like baby here doesn't swallow.

[_candide_]

I suspect that emphasis on swallowing has more to do with what we see/read in porn. And, sadly, much of the attitudes towards bottoms in gay port originated in straight porn. Which is why you can see all of these weirdly out-of-place-misogynistic attitudes towards guys in gay porn who are catching or who are giving blow jobs

[findingme_lost]

easier cleanup.