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Sep 28, 2004 00:16

Poll if you were dating someone...

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ras_sinister September 28 2004, 09:10:53 UTC
I would have answered this, but the first question did not have an accurate answer for me. I don't think it's a bad thing if someone smokes a bowl two times in one day or smokes a cigarette two times in one day. Or even if they have two drinks on two separate occasions in one day.

Furthermore, it's not the use that is the issue so much as the consequences of the use. Do they have a steady job? Do they get stupid/violent/lazy when using their drug? Do they get nasty when they can't have their drug? These issues are far more important than the frequency of use, or even the substance in question.

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aventurine September 28 2004, 11:50:49 UTC
is it your opinion, then, that the drug use doesn't matter as long as they can "handle" it? for example.. as long as they do what they're supposed to do in life and don't act crazy, it's okay if they smoke a bowl a few times a day or do some lines of coke every night?

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ras_sinister September 28 2004, 17:23:39 UTC
Drug use is only a problem when it becomes a hindrance to one's obligations. For example, if one loses a job because they are caught being under the influence at work, or if they spend all their money and go broke paying for their habit, or if they become hurtful towards their loved ones because of drug-induced behavior.

There are a number of vices which could prove self-destructive if not managed correctly. It's possible that something as benign as masturbation could be a self-destructive vice if one is always late to work because they had to get off before leaving the house.

The definition of a disorder hinges on the concept of reduced functionality. If one functions just fine, there isn't really a problem.

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aventurine September 28 2004, 20:05:45 UTC
that's essentially my view on drug use as well, but i'm aware that people disagree because they believe that some drugs inherently can't be managed (ie, crack, heroin). what do you think of that?

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ras_sinister September 28 2004, 22:54:59 UTC
"Can't" is one four-letter word I don't like to use ( ... )

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