my dear friends;
know what? yes, i'm going to remove a lot of friends. not because i don't like you, but because you don't type in your livejournal and that's not fair you don't use it and just use it to read your friends' entries. i'm sorry but i don't think this is fair. and no, i don't hate you for this but i am going to do this. and please respect that, thank
Sometimes, I update my livejournal once a while... I don't have to update my livejournal as the usual as you do. I don't sit on my computer all day and write randomly on livejournal. My livejournal is just a very small part of my life. I added you to my friends' list because I gave you the privilege to read my livejournal when I write. Obviously, you update frequently as you devote amount of your time to your livejournal.
Honestly, I find it very unfair of you to eliminate me (and even for your friends) from your privilege meanwhile I allow you to read my livejournal entry. I don't post it all the time but you should be lucky that one day, you will get to read my recent update livejournal.
Now, I am through with this with you, period.
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i have all rights to type whatever i want in MY livejournal, that includes my opinions and feelings.
how would you feel if someone didn't update alot and you gave that person permission to read your entries and that person knows a lot about you because you update but you don't know what's going on with that person because they don't update? i know maybe you wouldn't care. but i do care.
you totally don't respect my wishes. wow. i thought i thought you would, but guess you have changed.
again, it is my livejournal, MINE. i get to do what i want with it. thanks for making this a big deal over livejournal because now i guess you're not my friend anymore because of what i said.
fine.
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As you said, "how would you feel if someone didn't update alot and you gave that person permission to read your entries and that person knows a lot about you because you update but you don't know what's going on with that person because they don't update? i know maybe you wouldn't care. but i do care."
*laughs* I do care but this is college, girl... many of us have many things to do. We are not Stephanie Vik who is very devoted to livejournal, paying for livejournal subscription, decorating livejournal, and writing livejournal. If I read my friend's livejournal and I have not update, I dont think my friend would whine that it is not fair. I can simply IM or e-mail my friend to tell what's up with me... I'd answer but writing entries on livejournal... please, I have enough of typing of my homework. My fingers need rest from a hard honest day's work. You need to be aggressive and communicate with your friends to see what's going on with your friends. Communicating through livejournal is like going through a third party or leaving a big note what's going on. There're many ways to form established communications between friends.
I am just telling you that people might not have time to update their entries for you to read what's up with them... perhaps it would be better if you find another way to communicate with them to see what's up with them. Maybe one person would prefer to IM you to tell you what's up with him/her. Friends have different way of communication form to tell their friends what's up with them. Not just livejournal...
Again, it is your livejournal... YOURS! Oh, yes you can get to do whatever you want with your livejournal. But people can see and feel what you are writing to them...
By the way, oh please, don't tell me that I've changed... You are not my psychanalysist. You don't know me, Jose!
One more thing, I'd prefer to chat on IM with friends and you are always on away message...
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umm... by the way, don't tell me that i need to communicate or be aggressive. my communication doesn't need to be through livejournal.
if people have a problem with it, their problem. i'm not worried. i'm fine with my life and friends that i have.
you're the one that obviously has a problem with it because you're the only one complaining. stop saying people, use your own name because no one else is complaining.
thankyouverymuch.
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This time you are right... I did complian because I do care about our friendship. Remember the good times we hang out in Arizona? We used to chat a lot and shared our thoughts. It was an awesome friendship we had. I was very glad. "Real World"... remember the concept of what's the world today.
So now, yes it is your livejournal and you can do whatever you'd like... so as I found out, I was off the list.... I should accept... so thanks, Stephanie for the great memory of our highlights. :)
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