Stress...Stress...and More Stress......

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Which derives from trying to mature a 12 year old that acts like she is fn 2 and get her to be able to pass the fn 5th grade (which she failed when living w/her bio mother) all in a fn month. The tension in our home is so thick, I surmise I'll have this headache (now going on 5 days) for a long time)...grrrrrrrrrrr. She thinks it's all a fn game,and can you say LAZY? sure I knew you could.... and her Dad.....well he has coddled her her whole fn life, so thus the maturity issues. So me being me......I have let her have it, layed the law down in a stern manner, told her to stop her fn crocodile tears they don't work w/me and then I let him have it. Now I did this Wednesday after she played the I don't wanna live w/Daddy game because she isn't getting her fn way......and here it is Sunday.....4 days....and no improvement.....because he still doesn't get the meaning of CORRECT HER ASS FOR EVERYTHING SHE IS DOING WRONG,YELL AT HER,BE STERN AND CONSISTENT, that talking to her like she is 2 is NOT gonna fn work !@#@!....All these books we got her to do schoolwork in for the summer so she has a basic understanding of 5th grade work.....and she just fails each page *shakes head* Games, games and more fn games....f off and make their lives miserable so they will get tired and I won't have to do this work....NOT. So we spent 8 plus hrs yesterday...our day off...the weekend....pulling our hair out w/her......and me watching him basically try to walk her thru the work....no I stopped that......and of course he didn't like the fact that the TRUTH hurts...oh well get the F over it....

So today....I am going to do our laundry, get some rays,and go shopping w/my fantabulous 17 y/o dtr and he can stay here w/her(12 y/o) while she does today's assignments and if he gives her the answers.....not only will I know it....but....he is only hurting her....and that's on him. And my dtr and myself will enjoy our last day off this weekend and I really don't care that he has to babysit and deal w/her antics all day doing this schoolwork......maybe just MAYBE .....he'll correct her ass and yell and give her the straighten up or else......