guidance please

Oct 10, 2005 15:16

Ok, so I've got a dilemma. There are two things going on on the 29th ( Read more... )

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the1andonlyerg October 10 2005, 20:25:18 UTC
Ours is not a one time offer. Ours is low pressure. Ours is the one where we'd feel bad if you had to make a tough choice and missed out on something important to you. Ours is the one where we'll take no offense if you went another way. So you do what's best by you, and no worries!

However, if you do want to come, blkw1d is talking about doing something for the holiday, so it may not be an entirely "secular" event here after all.

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autumnreign October 10 2005, 21:08:27 UTC
Thanks, Eric. That helps alot.

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blkw1d October 10 2005, 21:31:18 UTC
mind you... i have never done anything like this own my own. i have participated, but not lead. any help is greatly appriciated(sp?). and if you would like i can give you a role here as well. its up to you. as the hubby said... no pressures and no worries. you would be missed, but we don't want you to miss something that is important to you. others are going to a circle else where that night as well and will miss the party. it's ok. we just love this holiday and invited everyone to come and celebrate with us. that doesn't mean you have to come. k... now i am babbling. we will love you still no matter what you decide.

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autumnreign October 11 2005, 03:36:23 UTC
*sigh* well it looks like I'm going to the ritual. I hope you guys have fun. I'm sorry I won't be there. I really wanted to be, I just feel like I need to go to this other thing. I will send extra hugs with Tam and Amber.

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blkw1d October 11 2005, 16:52:26 UTC
that is ok. don't worry about it. we will send extra hugs home with them for you. maybe a goodie bag have fun where you are going.

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