Apr 14, 2013 23:09
So, this weekend was pretty great. I had a slight breakthrough with approaching girls at bars and shit. I wasn't even all that intoxicated. Stoned? Yes, but drunk? No. Just had an awesome BBQ dinner and headed out to the bar round midnight. I've finally learned to say SOMETHING as soon as I see someone attractive. Especially the most beautiful ones. Gotta say something. Obviously nothing I've said has worked. But, I started conversations and said hello.
I mean, there's a lot more work ahead, but hey, I said hello. One chick even wanted to dance and shit with me, but I eventually made a poor move and failed. Women, are so fucking fickle. One wrong move and buh-bye. Oh well. They have their options and they just have people approach them with shitty conversation and then they go home with the hottest one at the end of the night. I would too. heh.
I dunno, the hardest part is when you meet random people is reasoning why to keep in touch. Its obvious why I would like to keep in touch, but for some reason I don't think being honest works? I'm not sure why. But, I feel no one is ever honest with me, and dishonesty is a worrisome reality. Though, my way hasn't really ever worked.
Heh, on that note, I seriously have no clue how I ever even got laid. Let alone more then once. But, hey, I guess I'm on a new level here in New York, so I gotta just keep trying to learn from my many, many, many mistakes. At least I'm making some progress. I definately talked to more girls this weekend while out then I have in a long time, and I approached, was approached, and had conversations with beautiful and smart women. It was awesome.