so people not on sg [my other forum for complaining] know what's going on with my life.
i. don't. get it.
so i just called my parents' house to ask if i could send some of my furntiure and stuff home to nyc with them when i moved, because i just realized i don't have a single closet in my new apartment. NOW i know why my new place is so big. no space had been "wasted" on storage. augh. in any event, i call them to ask and my mother informs me that my father told her to tell me that i never told him i was moving in with glenn [which i definitely did] and he disapproves, seeing as we're not married, and that he's not going to give me money for school anymore, and that it's now glenn's responsibility. i have no idea what is going on. i've lived with not one, but two of my ex-boyfriends [including jason], and i've even made it extremely clear to them that glenn and i are getting married at some point. we are, in fact, not rushing into an engagement, because we want to have a formal engagement ring kind of thing and we both think we're not financially stable enough for that yet. [my father never even got my mother an engagement ring. he said it was a stupid formality. and pretty much since they got married, he's treated her like shit. so, yeah.] i don't get why my dad is being an asshole. residual anger, maybe, from when i got into a fight with him because he made me sleep on the livingroom couch when glenn came to take care of me after my surgery? i mean, sleeping seperately is annoying enough, but i'm allergic to that couch AND i had just had major surgery. and i ended up sleeping down there anyway. following that news, my mother went on to tell me that i should have just gone on living in my present apartment with my roommate, because the new apartment wasn't worth saving 50$ a month because there's no storage and it's further from school. she thinks this move is only benefitting glenn. as if living with the man i love isn't a benefit for me at all. yeah, whatever.
i can't wait for this summer to be over. it's really too much for me to deal with.
so i just called my parents' house to ask if i could send some of my furntiure and stuff home to nyc with them when i moved, because i just realized i don't have a single closet in my new apartment. NOW i know why my new place is so big. no space had been "wasted" on storage. augh. in any event, i call them to ask and my mother informs me that my father told her to tell me that i never told him i was moving in with glenn [which i definitely did] and he disapproves, seeing as we're not married, and that he's not going to give me money for school anymore, and that it's now glenn's responsibility. i have no idea what is going on. i've lived with not one, but two of my ex-boyfriends [including jason], and i've even made it extremely clear to them that glenn and i are getting married at some point. we are, in fact, not rushing into an engagement, because we want to have a formal engagement ring kind of thing and we both think we're not financially stable enough for that yet. [my father never even got my mother an engagement ring. he said it was a stupid formality. and pretty much since they got married, he's treated her like shit. so, yeah.] i don't get why my dad is being an asshole. residual anger, maybe, from when i got into a fight with him because he made me sleep on the livingroom couch when glenn came to take care of me after my surgery? i mean, sleeping seperately is annoying enough, but i'm allergic to that couch AND i had just had major surgery. and i ended up sleeping down there anyway. following that news, my mother went on to tell me that i should have just gone on living in my present apartment with my roommate, because the new apartment wasn't worth saving 50$ a month because there's no storage and it's further from school. she thinks this move is only benefitting glenn. as if living with the man i love isn't a benefit for me at all. yeah, whatever.
i can't wait for this summer to be over. it's really too much for me to deal with.