Kendal Calling
Went to Kendal Calling. There were mountains and music. My legs really really hurt now and I have to go to work today.
Was very fun though. I want to go camping again soon :)
You know how there is always that friend who you never hear from except when something is on offer? I have one of those and she came with us. She's got ADHD so I always feel awful when she annoys me. She also has very low self esteem so I can never have a go when she's being selfish because she will burst into tears.
She is selfish a lot. Except it is never consciously done. She just doesn't seem to think.
She'd never been to a festival before, but if you go to a big event with someone, would you expect to go around said event with them or bugger off on your own without even seeing what their plans were?
I don't go into friendships because I expect stuff of them, but there should be give and take surely?
The thing is. It's gotten to a point now that if she ever did actually put the effort in and call me to see if I wanted to hang out / go to the cinema / something, I'd just see it as work.
Is it terrible not to want to be friends with someone who really likes you because they are just so much effort? And just so socially inept?
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