opinions/help.
ALRIGHT, SO WHOEVER STILL READS THIS THING OF MINE, I NEED SOME INSIGHT!! PLEASE!!!
here's the situation.
boyfriend= jason
boyfriends brother= john
boyfriends girlfriend/friend of mine (from soccer team) = karla
karlas best friend/also on the soccer team= lauren
i absolutely HATE drama in my life that i dont need, not to mention im not very fond of john for numerous reasons, a few being outside of this situation so i'll refrain from talking about them. anyway... john has been cheating on karla. hes been cheating on her... since... well... basically since they became "official". now, a while ago, i decided to stay out of it for a few simple reasons.
one being that, i didnt want to deal with drama. second being that its really none of my business. hes my boyfriends brother, and shes just a friend of mine (not a best friend, not someone i often hangout with, or even talk to outside of soccer). so i've been doing my best just to ignore it.
however... its gotten too extreme.
prior to john and karla being official, john was juggling both karla and lauren. sleeping with both of them, telling them both that he loved them, etc. now, even after he "chose" karla... its never stopped him and lauren.....
lauren has been having problems at home, so being the good friend that karla is, her family has invited lauren to move in with them til she gets stuff figured out....
now, she hasnt moved in yet... but shes supposed to.
keep in mind, the WHOLE time that john and lauren never stopped hooking up.
this is supposed to be this girls BOYFRIEND who shes IN LOVE with, and her BEST fucking FRIEND.
karla has been out of town for a little over a week now. and ive been over to jasons house numerous times in the past week and seen laurens car parked down the street clearly trying to make it unobvious that shes there... real smooth, right? i know that shes stayed the night, i KNOW they've been hooking up, and having sex. it absolutely disgusts me to even think about these two ridiculous people doing this to a girl who is completely oblivious and fully trusts the both of them.
heres my question.
do i tell the poor girl? or do i just keep my mouth shut?
because honestly- before i never physically SAW john and lauren hooking up. i just heard word of it when john would brag about how smooth he was. now that i have flat out seen for myself how truly sad these two are, i almost feel obligated to tell karla, even if its not my business.
all i know is that, if people knew that something like this was going on behind my back, i would HOPE that someone would fucking tell me.... honestly, i would just tell the girl, however. jason has asked me to just leave it alone. only because he doesnt want to have to deal with the bullshit john will cause afterward. he thinks john will blame him for me saying anything in the first place, and he doesnt want to have to put up with it.
and trust me, john is a fucking cock bag. and he will make jasons life hell.
so. what do i do.
do i go against my boyfriend?
or do i try to help karla out because she doesnt deserve it?
here's the situation.
boyfriend= jason
boyfriends brother= john
boyfriends girlfriend/friend of mine (from soccer team) = karla
karlas best friend/also on the soccer team= lauren
i absolutely HATE drama in my life that i dont need, not to mention im not very fond of john for numerous reasons, a few being outside of this situation so i'll refrain from talking about them. anyway... john has been cheating on karla. hes been cheating on her... since... well... basically since they became "official". now, a while ago, i decided to stay out of it for a few simple reasons.
one being that, i didnt want to deal with drama. second being that its really none of my business. hes my boyfriends brother, and shes just a friend of mine (not a best friend, not someone i often hangout with, or even talk to outside of soccer). so i've been doing my best just to ignore it.
however... its gotten too extreme.
prior to john and karla being official, john was juggling both karla and lauren. sleeping with both of them, telling them both that he loved them, etc. now, even after he "chose" karla... its never stopped him and lauren.....
lauren has been having problems at home, so being the good friend that karla is, her family has invited lauren to move in with them til she gets stuff figured out....
now, she hasnt moved in yet... but shes supposed to.
keep in mind, the WHOLE time that john and lauren never stopped hooking up.
this is supposed to be this girls BOYFRIEND who shes IN LOVE with, and her BEST fucking FRIEND.
karla has been out of town for a little over a week now. and ive been over to jasons house numerous times in the past week and seen laurens car parked down the street clearly trying to make it unobvious that shes there... real smooth, right? i know that shes stayed the night, i KNOW they've been hooking up, and having sex. it absolutely disgusts me to even think about these two ridiculous people doing this to a girl who is completely oblivious and fully trusts the both of them.
heres my question.
do i tell the poor girl? or do i just keep my mouth shut?
because honestly- before i never physically SAW john and lauren hooking up. i just heard word of it when john would brag about how smooth he was. now that i have flat out seen for myself how truly sad these two are, i almost feel obligated to tell karla, even if its not my business.
all i know is that, if people knew that something like this was going on behind my back, i would HOPE that someone would fucking tell me.... honestly, i would just tell the girl, however. jason has asked me to just leave it alone. only because he doesnt want to have to deal with the bullshit john will cause afterward. he thinks john will blame him for me saying anything in the first place, and he doesnt want to have to put up with it.
and trust me, john is a fucking cock bag. and he will make jasons life hell.
so. what do i do.
do i go against my boyfriend?
or do i try to help karla out because she doesnt deserve it?