Feb 16, 2009 22:18
I talked to Josh's brother the other day and he was telling me that his dad really likes me and thinks I'm a really good wife and person in general. He told me that when he talks to Josh he tells him what a good wife I am and that he better not do anything stupid to mess things up with me, cuz he's never going to find someone else like me
And I mean its true, I would say the same about him. When I left to San Francisco he never tried to stop me, and throughout the long distance, he's always been there to support me. He's never held me back from anything, and I know he would say the same about me. I mean I've seen those gf's/wives that don't want their husband hanging with their friends, playing in a band, making excuses and just being selfish. But I've always supported him in everything that he's wanted to do and seen its importance, and he's always been a very dedicated person. When he really wants something, he goes for it. We use our strengths to help each other, and also the fact that we're both on the same page when it comes to our financial spending and our values in general helps a lot, no to mention our communication. We've never put each other down or tried to hold each other back from anything, which is why we've been successful thus far, and why I know we will be in the future.
We're going to be kicking ass together.
Honestly he's a better person than me. He is so inspirational because he's never let anything get in his way of succeeding, such as his citizenship status, unlike pretty much everyone else in our lives who have things so much easier and have so many more opportunities yet they don't do anything with their lives. He never makes excuses for not working or not having a job, he doesn't waste a second, when we were in Mexico he started working the next day, and now he's trying to get hired as a teacher. No matter where he is, he always finds ways to improve himself, and he is so good at accomplishing many things in so little time. He's my hero, and knowing him he would say that I'm his hero because he wouldn't have been able to do so many things without me. It all goes vice-versa between us.
I mean, he wants me to take him different types of math books, and plumbing books, and he owns a medical dictionary and reads it just for fun. He had me quiz him for a month every day on capitals and states for the world. We had a huge world map on our wall. He just likes bettering himself and gaining more knowledge even though some of it is pretty random. He's a nerd, well we both pretty much are, and I love him for that. I miss him.