I apologize. I looked for an HMD for Po and you didn't have one; commenting seemed easier and less formal than IMing you when it wasn't meant to be a formal HMD, but a casual observation. If you are so offended by my expressed concern that you no longer want to thread with me, then I respect that.
I have only interacted with two of your four characters, to my knowledge, so I can't speak to the other two. I don't know John's canon. I know Po's and I said that what I read didn't seem like Po's voice to me. It's not meant to be an insult or anything and I hope you don't take it personally. It was a concern I noticed and expressed. Again, maybe I'm wrong and I'm fine with you disagreeing. We can agree to disagree.
As far as I'm concerned, the issue is resolved on my end and, in future, I will comment on your application or a different character's HMD if I feel it is appropriate to comment on your playing in any way. What you choose to do from here on is your choice.
I don't think of IMing as formal, actually, so it wouldn't be weird to me? Like I said, I'm not offended, and no, I'm not taking it personally. And yeah, we can agree to disagree, but not telling me why you find it not!Po-voice instead of saying it sounded too similar to John doesn't really...tell me the concern that well? Like, why doesn't it sound like him? I can't give you any answer or anything if you just say, "well it doesn't sound like Po." That's not going to help me understand your concern, nor is it going to do anything to make me realize what you meant.
I find IM more formal than a casual bracket note; as I said, I will use your preferred methods in future.
I am not comfortable detailing my concerns within my HMD post. As I said, I am happy to agree to disagree. If you are specifically requesting me to elaborate, I will be happy to do so under Po's application.
If you want to, go for it. Just know that I'm not gonna, like, bite your face off or anything nasty in IM, yeah? I'm not mad, and I know we had differences at our last game, but seriously, if you think I'm, like, holding some epic grudge against you or whatever, uh, no, I'm totally not. I know I have a formidable reputation but I'm not some crazy-pants monster that envelopes people in AIM and destroys them or anything, so, like, don't be afraid because of that that I'd be mean, I guess?
Cyn. You are the one who insisted that we had troubles repeatedly at multiple games that you/we attended. I have never had any trouble with you and never thought you had trouble with me, outside of you telling my friends and games I was in that we had troubles repeatedly. When asked about you in our past, I said honestly that you were asked to leave TLV for reasons I didn't know; I didn't even mention the several other games you were asked to leave or rejected from that I am aware of because I don't care and I try not to get involved in drama.
I don't like IMing with people who I have a neutral or negative opinion of and I don't like IMing regarding conflicts with any people outside of close friends. I have a neutral opinion of you and have absolutely no desire to IM you with a conflict; that's my personal opinion and choice and I ask you to respect that as I have respected your requests for communication.
If you are not specifically requesting elaboration, as it seems you are not, I am happy to let this matter rest and move on.
What? I said we had troubles at TLV, because we did. Or, it seemed to me we did, solely because of the time I brought up my crit for Hayley, everyone flocked to "counter" that, and it felt like they'd all been IM'd or something. I mean, you seemed pretty disheartened by it, and you seemed pretty convinced I hated you in your reply to my first comment. I didn't know we were at any other games together, so...I have no idea outside of TLV? And if anyone's asked you, then, all right, I guess that's, uh...nice to know
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I understand how you could hold that perception, which is why I'm informing you of my own. Off the top of my head, you told the same things to the MODs at Disney Academy and to others here; I know because I was asked my side of things at each.
I used that icon because I'm truly shocked and appalled that you could interpret my observation here (and subsequent replies) as having anything to do with a game I don't even play at anymore. I don't respect you; I feel that respect must be earned. I respect your views, your opinions, your perceptions, and your wishes as a human being and fellow player.
I have not taken anything back. You did not specify whether you wanted an elaboration or not until now, so now I will elaborate in the appropriate forum. I said that I was interested in agreeing to disagree because I respect the potential for differing opinions and that, unless you specifically wanted more feedback, I didn't want to give it. That was my choice. I am not accusing you of saying you were rejecting my concerns
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I'm sorry if they talked to you about it, but since my time at TLV and before, I have had to talk to mods beforehand at every game I have ever been told to app at or even showed interest in. In the majority of these, people would go to the mods even if they had not been in a game with me but came later and tell them what they read/heard/seen and/or all out lie, etc. Obviously, I grew very paranoid. Yes, I have said that we had issues, because of what has happened in the past, I honestly freak out 99% of the time when I join a game and someone I used to know is in it. Considering the HMD with Hayley and various other things that happened between our characters in that one game, yes, I viewed you as someone who hated me forever and ever amen. I'm sorry if I said anything out of that paranoia that upset you. I've taken a totally different outlook on life in the past year and a half, but sometimes, yes, I can fall back into the stupid fear of it all, and yes, I have engaged in gossip without even realizing it. I'm not saying that as an
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"If you want to, go for it" reads to me as "If you want to, go for it." I did not want to unless you wanted me to; therefore, when you expressed no preference, I chose my own preference.
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I have only interacted with two of your four characters, to my knowledge, so I can't speak to the other two. I don't know John's canon. I know Po's and I said that what I read didn't seem like Po's voice to me. It's not meant to be an insult or anything and I hope you don't take it personally. It was a concern I noticed and expressed. Again, maybe I'm wrong and I'm fine with you disagreeing. We can agree to disagree.
As far as I'm concerned, the issue is resolved on my end and, in future, I will comment on your application or a different character's HMD if I feel it is appropriate to comment on your playing in any way. What you choose to do from here on is your choice.
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I am not comfortable detailing my concerns within my HMD post. As I said, I am happy to agree to disagree. If you are specifically requesting me to elaborate, I will be happy to do so under Po's application.
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I don't like IMing with people who I have a neutral or negative opinion of and I don't like IMing regarding conflicts with any people outside of close friends. I have a neutral opinion of you and have absolutely no desire to IM you with a conflict; that's my personal opinion and choice and I ask you to respect that as I have respected your requests for communication.
If you are not specifically requesting elaboration, as it seems you are not, I am happy to let this matter rest and move on.
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I used that icon because I'm truly shocked and appalled that you could interpret my observation here (and subsequent replies) as having anything to do with a game I don't even play at anymore. I don't respect you; I feel that respect must be earned. I respect your views, your opinions, your perceptions, and your wishes as a human being and fellow player.
I have not taken anything back. You did not specify whether you wanted an elaboration or not until now, so now I will elaborate in the appropriate forum. I said that I was interested in agreeing to disagree because I respect the potential for differing opinions and that, unless you specifically wanted more feedback, I didn't want to give it. That was my choice. I am not accusing you of saying you were rejecting my concerns ( ... )
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"If you want to, go for it" reads to me as "If you want to, go for it." I did not want to unless you wanted me to; therefore, when you expressed no preference, I chose my own preference.
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