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I brought it up... the one night he was sober.
But that's what he tells me to do and thats what my mom tells me to do; I should have known better.
He just pretended he didn't hear my voice, til I told him that this was important and started crying. Then he gave me that evil glare, cuz I guess crying is a mortal sin, and looked away.
I couldn't help myself and I know I made it worse, but I yelled at him, "STOP AVOIDING IT! If it's not a problem then why do you always have to avoid it!?"
He left the room and hasn't spoken to me since (that was thursday).
My mom says it's time for her and I and alanon...
my response: "That means you better be ready for a divorce..."
It just doesnt make sence to me. How are we supposed to learn to deal with his 'disease' if he won't communicate? And all they are going to do is tell my mom she needs to kick him out because of all the damage he has already caused and is still causing (she's been there, done that once already). I know it's because she feels she needs the support, but all her friends and family support her.
I know she loves him, so she can't expect herself to kick him out and never let him back...
But that's what he tells me to do and thats what my mom tells me to do; I should have known better.
He just pretended he didn't hear my voice, til I told him that this was important and started crying. Then he gave me that evil glare, cuz I guess crying is a mortal sin, and looked away.
I couldn't help myself and I know I made it worse, but I yelled at him, "STOP AVOIDING IT! If it's not a problem then why do you always have to avoid it!?"
He left the room and hasn't spoken to me since (that was thursday).
My mom says it's time for her and I and alanon...
my response: "That means you better be ready for a divorce..."
It just doesnt make sence to me. How are we supposed to learn to deal with his 'disease' if he won't communicate? And all they are going to do is tell my mom she needs to kick him out because of all the damage he has already caused and is still causing (she's been there, done that once already). I know it's because she feels she needs the support, but all her friends and family support her.
I know she loves him, so she can't expect herself to kick him out and never let him back...