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[astrojetta]

One of my favorite things to do is to look back on old journal entries to see where Gia was at years ago at the same time of year. Now it's so painful to look back at anything. It sucks.

I can't stand to look through photo albums, videos, anything. When will it get better?

Comments

[thistles]

Jetta! I have been thinking about you and wondering how you are. Glad to see back here on LJ. Has Gia started school?

[ksassy71]

It's always going to hurt, but it'll get less and less with time, and eventually you'll be able to remember the good times you had.

[miz_landry]

I have to agree with ksassy, but eventually it'll be part of the fabric of your life and you have a lot of new adventure before you! Sounds hoaky, but it's true. I am a believer in the relationship half life. Where it takes you half time time you were in it to get over it. It might not always be that long, but it gives you a good frame and if you beat the time, then, YAY. My worst breakup took exactly the half life but it still stings even though the breakup happened nearly (gasp) 20 years ago and we had no kids or marriage or anything.

[yndy]

There comes a point, I think, where "painful open emotional wound" becomes "scarred over bit that's a little sore still if pressed."

The only way I know to get there is time.

((((((((((((hug))))))))))

[myfriendjenny]

I know exactly what you mean. I have to believe it will get easier over time.
*hugs*