THE TRUTH ABOUT KURT aka "NEO" "ANGEL", ETC.
For thouse of you on my regular list this doesn't really apply to you as you are not in WA...this is just some horrid stuff my family had to go through this past month. We are better now aside from some effects such as this person taking pictures of my son off my sites and also video of him that was taken WITHOUT my permission that had best be removed ASAP if police involvement is to be avoided....unlike Kevin you did do illegal things....and make threats.
Anyway, I will give my story soon enough but here is my hubbys side of it and mine for the most part. (Sorry it's long, but I didn't want to hide behind a cut or an anounymous name)
Since none of you wish to listen to BlackBird's account of what transpired, I will tell you all in my own words what really happened and what led me to decide to expell Kurt and Crystal from my home on July 31st 2007.
Just over two weeks prior, I received a call from Crystal telling me that she and Kurt were being evicted from their home. She asked me if I knew of anyone who could put them up for a time until they could receive a monthly check on the 1st of August. I told them that I did not. But I brought the idea to my wife and asked her if she would mind allowing the two of them to briefly crash out in my sister's bedroom until they got their money. She was resistant to the request. I allowed the matter to drop.
I was curious though and brought it up again and we decided together to go ahead and extend our hospitality. I called them back to tell them that they could stay temporarily until they could get their money, then they had to find their own place.
They tehn asked me if they could bring a friend with them wo was at the time living with them (BlackBird). I asked if it was possible that he could go elsewhere, as I had not been informed originally that they had a roommate. They said no, that he had no place to go and I relented, against my wife's wishes. They showed up on Wednesday the 18th with their roommate BlackBird, driven over by Crystal's mom, Phyllis. They brought with them some belongings, and a chihuahua. I asked whose dog it was and they said it was theirs. I told them that they had not informed me about a dog. Thereupon Kurt began to bitch out Crystal for not saying anything. I told them that I would get the gate to the back yard fixed so it could stay out there. They agreed to that and offered to help fix it.
I showed them the room that they could stay in and said that their friend could sleep on the floor. I was very nervous about their dog being in the house because we have a cat. Besides that it is a very disgusting looking and smelling dog that looked as though it had contracted mange. It has patchy fur, scaly skin, swollen and pustulated ears, leaky eyes, and a foul temper. I became concerned for my home, our health, and for my infant son who likes to play on the floor. They swore that it was merely allergies and my wife who has worked with animals for quite a few years pointed out that if it was mange then they would have it as well. Mange is a very virulent and contageous affliction catchable by humans.
I insisted that it remain off the furniture and that it go outside soon. They promised to take it out and tend to its business which they neglected to do. The dog was allowed to urinate on my floors and carpet, and when I told them all I got in return was derision, scorn and told, "Not my dog. He doesn't do that. It was your cat." I would point out that my cat is litter trained so it had to be their dog. Then they would give me a bigger attitude. In the two weeks that they were there, the dog proceeded to urinate in my roommate Delina's room, the laundry room, the living room and defacate in my private bedroom and my kitchen. And each time I asked them to clean it up Kurt would throw a screaming fit and only grudgingly clean it up. When I asked him to put the dog out he screamed that the dog was a service animal and refused to comply.
They decided that BlackBird could not stay in the room with them and froced him to sleep in the living room, and pointedly refused to allow him entry.
Then kurt tried to sit down and explain all of his stuff about pretending to be or being Neo, and other things that although sounded silly to me, I listened to and discussed with him. I didn't judge anything he had to say but let him know it wasn't for me. He proceeded to put on the Matrix movies and make references about how so many things that happened in the movies was bullshit and didn't or couldn't happen. I tried to point out that perhaps it was part of the storyline and he told me that he knew better. I pointed out that he did not write "The Matrix", instead the Wachowski Brothers had. He got insulted and stormed out of the room with Crystal. This happened on the second day they were here. Already he was displaying disturbing behavior and a total disregard for us.
Over the next two weeks it just got worse. he asked me if he could have cable installed so he could have internet access, which I didn't agree with. I reasoned that they would not be there very long and it didn't seem very smart to waste money they would need to get their own place. He once again got insulted and accused me of wanting to get rid of them. Then when I was away at work he called and ordered cable anyway.
Kurt tried to beg money to buy cigarettes which I declined. I told him that perhaps he should give up smoking for a while. He instead said to me "Wow, I didn't know a fucking lecture was coming with this request." So he instead sent Crystal off to Seattle to panhandle to make money for his addiction. He has done that many times while they were staying with us. usually while he sits at home eating, sleeping, or fiddling with his computer. I can't say I ever once saw him attempt to fend for himself once. He relied on her. He would send her to the market for him, to make his food, and do his wash. He treats her more like a glorified maid than a girlfriend/fiance.
On one occasion she became stranded in Seattle and was unable to return. Kurt began to storm around, screaming, and yelling at her on the phone, then stormed through my house slamming doors and swearing he was going to kill himself. Then he stormed out of the house into the rainy night. I followed after him to make sure he did not in fact step in front of a semi truck as he said he would. While out there I witnessed him screaming at Crystal on the phone in a very unhinged sort of way. He was swearing at her, calling her a "fucking bitch", calling her useless, and raving up and down the street. I'm sorry, but that doesn't seem like the behavior of a sane person. Then he returned to the house and started in on my wife and my roommate, yelling that we didn't care about him, nobody cared, he wanted to die, and bad mouthing me for "lecturing" him. This really upset my wife and my roommate. I tried to have a discussion with him about his unacceptable behavior and he began to argue with me and yell at me. I told him that if he didn't quit being belligerent I would kick them out. he told me he dared me to , that I couldn't kick them out, and that he would have me arrested. I told him to go back into his room and shut his mouth. He told me I had no right to talk down at him, that he was as old as I am and not a child. I told him he was acting like one. I reminded him it was in fact MY house and my rules and he began to rant that I was throwing that up into his face.
Once again I relented and let them stay, when I should have called the sherriff. And day after day they would continue to break all of the rules and boundaries I set out. I asked him not to smoke in or near the house, as I have a six month old child. He refused to obey it and would smoke in the room, near windows or in doorways. I asked them not to cook anymore after Crystal set my oven on fire. But she kept disobeying, and burnt my wife's best pans. I asked them not to cook or do laundry, or make noise past a certain time, 10 PM, as people who work need to sleep. They continuously disregarded this. When I attempted to address the rules they would throw attitude back at us and skulk in their room badmouthing us so loud we could hear.
They badmouthed my neighbors for making too much noise because they wanted to sleep in the middle of the day. I had to ask the neighbors' friends to refrain from kicking their asses.
I finally had enough when I realised that I was too scared to go to work and leave my wife and son home alone with these unstable people. So my siste and I packed their stuff for them and set it outside. Then we phoned them at Crystal's mom's house and told them that they were out, and asked them to come get their stuff. We found various odds and items that belonged to us that had mysteriously ended up in their room. And a plastic bag full of an unknown white powdery substance that looked like cocaine, which I refused to handle without gloves as I packed it in a trashbag.
Now they are out of my house, and out of my life and my family is back to normal. BlackBird remains with us because he was respectful, helpful, courteous and has become a good friend of mine. He works every day as a temp laborer till he pins down a full time job. Then he will endeavor to save his money to get back on his feet. He never once threatened Kurt and has done nothing illegal. I will be the first to come forward and bear witness for him. I saw first hand how nasty, demented, and unstable Kurt is, and I will tell you that he has all of you fooled with his posts, videos, and online acting. How can he help the world if he cannot even, or will not help himself? In my opinion he is an abusive, selfish, deceitful, self-interested, usurer and a fraud. He is and has been nothing but a burden to everyone he cons, imposes on, and harms. Luckily I was able to get BlackBird away before he could get into serious trouble. I only hope Crystal wakes up before it is too late. If not, then they deserve whatever comes to them. My wife can vouch for everything in this letter if you care to ask.
If you doubt me, feel free to contact me and I will tell you firsthand. Send me a message through BlackBird's email. I will respond.
Anyway, I will give my story soon enough but here is my hubbys side of it and mine for the most part. (Sorry it's long, but I didn't want to hide behind a cut or an anounymous name)
Since none of you wish to listen to BlackBird's account of what transpired, I will tell you all in my own words what really happened and what led me to decide to expell Kurt and Crystal from my home on July 31st 2007.
Just over two weeks prior, I received a call from Crystal telling me that she and Kurt were being evicted from their home. She asked me if I knew of anyone who could put them up for a time until they could receive a monthly check on the 1st of August. I told them that I did not. But I brought the idea to my wife and asked her if she would mind allowing the two of them to briefly crash out in my sister's bedroom until they got their money. She was resistant to the request. I allowed the matter to drop.
I was curious though and brought it up again and we decided together to go ahead and extend our hospitality. I called them back to tell them that they could stay temporarily until they could get their money, then they had to find their own place.
They tehn asked me if they could bring a friend with them wo was at the time living with them (BlackBird). I asked if it was possible that he could go elsewhere, as I had not been informed originally that they had a roommate. They said no, that he had no place to go and I relented, against my wife's wishes. They showed up on Wednesday the 18th with their roommate BlackBird, driven over by Crystal's mom, Phyllis. They brought with them some belongings, and a chihuahua. I asked whose dog it was and they said it was theirs. I told them that they had not informed me about a dog. Thereupon Kurt began to bitch out Crystal for not saying anything. I told them that I would get the gate to the back yard fixed so it could stay out there. They agreed to that and offered to help fix it.
I showed them the room that they could stay in and said that their friend could sleep on the floor. I was very nervous about their dog being in the house because we have a cat. Besides that it is a very disgusting looking and smelling dog that looked as though it had contracted mange. It has patchy fur, scaly skin, swollen and pustulated ears, leaky eyes, and a foul temper. I became concerned for my home, our health, and for my infant son who likes to play on the floor. They swore that it was merely allergies and my wife who has worked with animals for quite a few years pointed out that if it was mange then they would have it as well. Mange is a very virulent and contageous affliction catchable by humans.
I insisted that it remain off the furniture and that it go outside soon. They promised to take it out and tend to its business which they neglected to do. The dog was allowed to urinate on my floors and carpet, and when I told them all I got in return was derision, scorn and told, "Not my dog. He doesn't do that. It was your cat." I would point out that my cat is litter trained so it had to be their dog. Then they would give me a bigger attitude. In the two weeks that they were there, the dog proceeded to urinate in my roommate Delina's room, the laundry room, the living room and defacate in my private bedroom and my kitchen. And each time I asked them to clean it up Kurt would throw a screaming fit and only grudgingly clean it up. When I asked him to put the dog out he screamed that the dog was a service animal and refused to comply.
They decided that BlackBird could not stay in the room with them and froced him to sleep in the living room, and pointedly refused to allow him entry.
Then kurt tried to sit down and explain all of his stuff about pretending to be or being Neo, and other things that although sounded silly to me, I listened to and discussed with him. I didn't judge anything he had to say but let him know it wasn't for me. He proceeded to put on the Matrix movies and make references about how so many things that happened in the movies was bullshit and didn't or couldn't happen. I tried to point out that perhaps it was part of the storyline and he told me that he knew better. I pointed out that he did not write "The Matrix", instead the Wachowski Brothers had. He got insulted and stormed out of the room with Crystal. This happened on the second day they were here. Already he was displaying disturbing behavior and a total disregard for us.
Over the next two weeks it just got worse. he asked me if he could have cable installed so he could have internet access, which I didn't agree with. I reasoned that they would not be there very long and it didn't seem very smart to waste money they would need to get their own place. He once again got insulted and accused me of wanting to get rid of them. Then when I was away at work he called and ordered cable anyway.
Kurt tried to beg money to buy cigarettes which I declined. I told him that perhaps he should give up smoking for a while. He instead said to me "Wow, I didn't know a fucking lecture was coming with this request." So he instead sent Crystal off to Seattle to panhandle to make money for his addiction. He has done that many times while they were staying with us. usually while he sits at home eating, sleeping, or fiddling with his computer. I can't say I ever once saw him attempt to fend for himself once. He relied on her. He would send her to the market for him, to make his food, and do his wash. He treats her more like a glorified maid than a girlfriend/fiance.
On one occasion she became stranded in Seattle and was unable to return. Kurt began to storm around, screaming, and yelling at her on the phone, then stormed through my house slamming doors and swearing he was going to kill himself. Then he stormed out of the house into the rainy night. I followed after him to make sure he did not in fact step in front of a semi truck as he said he would. While out there I witnessed him screaming at Crystal on the phone in a very unhinged sort of way. He was swearing at her, calling her a "fucking bitch", calling her useless, and raving up and down the street. I'm sorry, but that doesn't seem like the behavior of a sane person. Then he returned to the house and started in on my wife and my roommate, yelling that we didn't care about him, nobody cared, he wanted to die, and bad mouthing me for "lecturing" him. This really upset my wife and my roommate. I tried to have a discussion with him about his unacceptable behavior and he began to argue with me and yell at me. I told him that if he didn't quit being belligerent I would kick them out. he told me he dared me to , that I couldn't kick them out, and that he would have me arrested. I told him to go back into his room and shut his mouth. He told me I had no right to talk down at him, that he was as old as I am and not a child. I told him he was acting like one. I reminded him it was in fact MY house and my rules and he began to rant that I was throwing that up into his face.
Once again I relented and let them stay, when I should have called the sherriff. And day after day they would continue to break all of the rules and boundaries I set out. I asked him not to smoke in or near the house, as I have a six month old child. He refused to obey it and would smoke in the room, near windows or in doorways. I asked them not to cook anymore after Crystal set my oven on fire. But she kept disobeying, and burnt my wife's best pans. I asked them not to cook or do laundry, or make noise past a certain time, 10 PM, as people who work need to sleep. They continuously disregarded this. When I attempted to address the rules they would throw attitude back at us and skulk in their room badmouthing us so loud we could hear.
They badmouthed my neighbors for making too much noise because they wanted to sleep in the middle of the day. I had to ask the neighbors' friends to refrain from kicking their asses.
I finally had enough when I realised that I was too scared to go to work and leave my wife and son home alone with these unstable people. So my siste and I packed their stuff for them and set it outside. Then we phoned them at Crystal's mom's house and told them that they were out, and asked them to come get their stuff. We found various odds and items that belonged to us that had mysteriously ended up in their room. And a plastic bag full of an unknown white powdery substance that looked like cocaine, which I refused to handle without gloves as I packed it in a trashbag.
Now they are out of my house, and out of my life and my family is back to normal. BlackBird remains with us because he was respectful, helpful, courteous and has become a good friend of mine. He works every day as a temp laborer till he pins down a full time job. Then he will endeavor to save his money to get back on his feet. He never once threatened Kurt and has done nothing illegal. I will be the first to come forward and bear witness for him. I saw first hand how nasty, demented, and unstable Kurt is, and I will tell you that he has all of you fooled with his posts, videos, and online acting. How can he help the world if he cannot even, or will not help himself? In my opinion he is an abusive, selfish, deceitful, self-interested, usurer and a fraud. He is and has been nothing but a burden to everyone he cons, imposes on, and harms. Luckily I was able to get BlackBird away before he could get into serious trouble. I only hope Crystal wakes up before it is too late. If not, then they deserve whatever comes to them. My wife can vouch for everything in this letter if you care to ask.
If you doubt me, feel free to contact me and I will tell you firsthand. Send me a message through BlackBird's email. I will respond.