Overly sensitive or being rude?
Hello guys i have a question for you. I am somewhat overly sensitive. I hear something, remember something, think something, and BAM instant tears or anger. I try to have really good manners like my mom taught me. Listen to people, try to have two way conversations, don't insult other people on purpose, be nice, and lots of other basic manners. I ask my mom a lot about what to do when you simply do not care about what the other person is saying. Which happens to be most of the things other people talk about. I'm really friendly and nice i smile at strangers and help people when i can.
So when i come in contact with my roomates their behaviors really confuse me. My roomate (who i share the room with.) everytime i start to tell one of my stories she leaves the room or walks away. This appears to be much ruder then just ignoring me. She didn't used to do this. My RA (who lives in our apartment.) every time i start talking she's like 'oh my god i'm so tired. I'm always tired whenever you start talking.' This seems less rude but still not nice at all. I can't really talk to my roomates because they absolutely hate my stories and when i talk. They do not want to know about me or understand me. (Which i keep trying to explain to them that things will be better if they just listen for a while.) While they do let me tell one or two stories like a day they're really mean about it. Yesturday my roomate that i live with kept yelling at me that she didn't care. They also do a lot of rumor ish starters my other roomate just told me that i said i wanted her to fuck me. Why i don't know.
I do not know. Why can't they be nice and just listen? I'm not sure if they are being really rude or if it's just me. I know they can be nice people cause they're nice to everyone else.
This is my desk in the library. I declare this my new home. I'll need to get some pieces of paper in a folder so i can hang them up them take them down each day. I just thought i'd share with you. Since someone suggested being in the library.
So when i come in contact with my roomates their behaviors really confuse me. My roomate (who i share the room with.) everytime i start to tell one of my stories she leaves the room or walks away. This appears to be much ruder then just ignoring me. She didn't used to do this. My RA (who lives in our apartment.) every time i start talking she's like 'oh my god i'm so tired. I'm always tired whenever you start talking.' This seems less rude but still not nice at all. I can't really talk to my roomates because they absolutely hate my stories and when i talk. They do not want to know about me or understand me. (Which i keep trying to explain to them that things will be better if they just listen for a while.) While they do let me tell one or two stories like a day they're really mean about it. Yesturday my roomate that i live with kept yelling at me that she didn't care. They also do a lot of rumor ish starters my other roomate just told me that i said i wanted her to fuck me. Why i don't know.
I do not know. Why can't they be nice and just listen? I'm not sure if they are being really rude or if it's just me. I know they can be nice people cause they're nice to everyone else.
This is my desk in the library. I declare this my new home. I'll need to get some pieces of paper in a folder so i can hang them up them take them down each day. I just thought i'd share with you. Since someone suggested being in the library.