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this... does not make me want to get back together.
This is a HUGE warning sign. Do not ignore. Real men make friends with their girlfriend's friends--male and female. They do not threaten to bash in faces.
I agree with goddessdragon. However, it doesn't look like she has any plans for a real breakup, based on the latest post about going to the movies.
If it were me in this scenario, I would have terminated all financial ties, moved out right away, informed the landlord, and made *him* responsible for cleaning up his life, and blocked all contact with him, period, for at least a year.
I had great sympathy for the original scenario, but since she seems cool with it, well, I can only wish her the best of luck and happiness!
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This is a HUGE warning sign. Do not ignore. Real men make friends with their girlfriend's friends--male and female. They do not threaten to bash in faces.
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actually, you're right, here: if he'd said, "let me talk to him so i can see what he's like, etc." then that would've been less of a problem.
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If it were me in this scenario, I would have terminated all financial ties, moved out right away, informed the landlord, and made *him* responsible for cleaning up his life, and blocked all contact with him, period, for at least a year.
I had great sympathy for the original scenario, but since she seems cool with it, well, I can only wish her the best of luck and happiness!
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