Annoying relationship question
This is a failed foray into life.
So, I met this chick back in July. We dated for about 2 weeks before she realized she didn't feel about me the way she wanted to in order to continue dating. OK, that stung, but whatever, it was only 2 weeks, so I figured I'd move on. But no, instead we decided to be friends with benefits. I knew that I was walking into a minefield because she didn't and doesn't feel about me the way I feel about her. When we're not together, I'm constantly checking my phone to see if she texted me and I stare at my gchat at work waiting for her to message me. Each night we spend together I feel worse and worse because I'm finding myself falling for her and she's as stoic and emotionally distant as she ever was. She has no interest in a relationship and only spends time with me when it's convenient - she never really goes out of her way to see me. I've recently started dating, but still, this girl is always on my mind. All of my friends say to cut her out of my life and I know that's what I need to do, but how? How do I have that conversation with her? For those who have been in this situation before (on either side), can you tell me about your experience?
So, I met this chick back in July. We dated for about 2 weeks before she realized she didn't feel about me the way she wanted to in order to continue dating. OK, that stung, but whatever, it was only 2 weeks, so I figured I'd move on. But no, instead we decided to be friends with benefits. I knew that I was walking into a minefield because she didn't and doesn't feel about me the way I feel about her. When we're not together, I'm constantly checking my phone to see if she texted me and I stare at my gchat at work waiting for her to message me. Each night we spend together I feel worse and worse because I'm finding myself falling for her and she's as stoic and emotionally distant as she ever was. She has no interest in a relationship and only spends time with me when it's convenient - she never really goes out of her way to see me. I've recently started dating, but still, this girl is always on my mind. All of my friends say to cut her out of my life and I know that's what I need to do, but how? How do I have that conversation with her? For those who have been in this situation before (on either side), can you tell me about your experience?