I don't even know
So, with everything going on at the moment, it frustrates me on how my own boyfriend can't take my own word for something. I don't know why, but it angers me that...wait. No, I do know why.
He'd rather take a pothead's, that he's only known for a month, word over mine, someone who he's been in a relationship with for a ten months. It hurts.
It really does.
And when I told him about this, he got angry. Not like the, 'how could you say something like that' angry. But the 'HULK SMASH!' kinda angry. He ended up bending and breaking his sunglasses.
Over something as stupid as the fact that I felt like he trusted this pothead more than he did me.
He should at least understand why I was so upset.
So, the whole story is that my sister left her $100 dollar hair extensions at his place. It's a long story as to how they were left there, but either way they were. And she regrets it dearly for the extra problem it caused. As far as her and I both knew, they were still in her hair when we left.
The only people that were at the apartment were my boyfriend's roommate, and some skank that the roommate has had over for a good week or so and then the skank's annoying, undisciplined 2 year old son.
And when I went to go look today, to see where they were, We only found a sliver of a piece that was obviously cut up. The hair was in two long strips and was laying on the couch. We found this piece on the floor.
I told Angelito(my boyfriend) to go and ask them if they'd seen them and they flat out lied that they'd never seen them other than in my sister's hair. This can't be true because obviously SOMEone had to touch them and I highly doubt my boyfriend would do anything to them.
I think what really bothers me about this whole situation is that he told me straight up that he doesn't believe that the rommate could have done anything to that nature. I mean, REALLY?! I'm your girlfriend, and you know me and trust me. How can you not at least LISTEN to what I say and take it with a grain of salt.
Your roommate isn't an angel and could be one of the most unreliable people in the world. So why the fuck are you not doing anything about it? Why aren't you trusting in me?!
She just needs to get out of there. It's not her place to be staying. And she has no right mooching off of someone as nice as Angelito. It's not our problem if she has no where to go because she decided to be irresponsible and get pregnant. She's the one who would rather stay with the roommate and get high day in and day out with her two year old child in the room.
I don't care where she goes. I just want to be able to go and visit my boyfriend without inconsiderate people taking advantage of his hospitality. I don't know who she thinks she is, but she's lucky that I listen to my boyfriend and don't say a fucking word to her.
Angelito needs to grow some fucking balls and realize that those fucking potheads in his apartment are taking advantage of him and not saying thank you.
He needs to realize that his roommate isn't a saint and will get in trouble and most likely pull him down with him. And he's worked too damn hard to make a life here to have it all be for naught.
*sigh*
I just needed to get all this out. He doesn't listen to me. I think it's because of how he was raised in Guatemala. Woman don't have a say in anything. And he needs to know that that's going to change. And if he continues to take what I say for granted, then he's going to have a rude awakening when I get tired of his bullshit.
My opinion should mean as much to him as it would for the next guy. And this whole 'me-man, you-cook' routine is getting tiring.
He'd rather take a pothead's, that he's only known for a month, word over mine, someone who he's been in a relationship with for a ten months. It hurts.
It really does.
And when I told him about this, he got angry. Not like the, 'how could you say something like that' angry. But the 'HULK SMASH!' kinda angry. He ended up bending and breaking his sunglasses.
Over something as stupid as the fact that I felt like he trusted this pothead more than he did me.
He should at least understand why I was so upset.
So, the whole story is that my sister left her $100 dollar hair extensions at his place. It's a long story as to how they were left there, but either way they were. And she regrets it dearly for the extra problem it caused. As far as her and I both knew, they were still in her hair when we left.
The only people that were at the apartment were my boyfriend's roommate, and some skank that the roommate has had over for a good week or so and then the skank's annoying, undisciplined 2 year old son.
And when I went to go look today, to see where they were, We only found a sliver of a piece that was obviously cut up. The hair was in two long strips and was laying on the couch. We found this piece on the floor.
I told Angelito(my boyfriend) to go and ask them if they'd seen them and they flat out lied that they'd never seen them other than in my sister's hair. This can't be true because obviously SOMEone had to touch them and I highly doubt my boyfriend would do anything to them.
I think what really bothers me about this whole situation is that he told me straight up that he doesn't believe that the rommate could have done anything to that nature. I mean, REALLY?! I'm your girlfriend, and you know me and trust me. How can you not at least LISTEN to what I say and take it with a grain of salt.
Your roommate isn't an angel and could be one of the most unreliable people in the world. So why the fuck are you not doing anything about it? Why aren't you trusting in me?!
She just needs to get out of there. It's not her place to be staying. And she has no right mooching off of someone as nice as Angelito. It's not our problem if she has no where to go because she decided to be irresponsible and get pregnant. She's the one who would rather stay with the roommate and get high day in and day out with her two year old child in the room.
I don't care where she goes. I just want to be able to go and visit my boyfriend without inconsiderate people taking advantage of his hospitality. I don't know who she thinks she is, but she's lucky that I listen to my boyfriend and don't say a fucking word to her.
Angelito needs to grow some fucking balls and realize that those fucking potheads in his apartment are taking advantage of him and not saying thank you.
He needs to realize that his roommate isn't a saint and will get in trouble and most likely pull him down with him. And he's worked too damn hard to make a life here to have it all be for naught.
*sigh*
I just needed to get all this out. He doesn't listen to me. I think it's because of how he was raised in Guatemala. Woman don't have a say in anything. And he needs to know that that's going to change. And if he continues to take what I say for granted, then he's going to have a rude awakening when I get tired of his bullshit.
My opinion should mean as much to him as it would for the next guy. And this whole 'me-man, you-cook' routine is getting tiring.