Men (really) are from Mars and Women are from Venus
u know they saying "men are from mars and women are from venus"? well i think that this is quite true. in biology at the moment i am learning about reproduction and how hormones in our body make us different. men and women use different parts of the brains even when doing the same things such as speaking, thinking algebraically, concentrating on an electrical problem, or helping someone in grief. also men and women seam to have their own specialities such as women are very social and are emotional people whereas men are logical/mathematical and object-orientated. i never really thought about this affecting my boyfriend neal.
today when i picked neal up from school (i had a free) we walked home and everything was ok. he was kicking a footy around and got a bit grumpy sometimes but i put it down to stress due to exams. he then kicked the footy onto his own roof to play a prank on his mum and scare her. but we realised that 1) his mum wasnt home and 2) we lost his footy. i was only there for about an hour becasue i had to go home to take care of my younger brother. instead of spending what time we had together with me, neal spent majority of his time looking for the football which he didnt end up finding. i didnt think much about it at the time but i also didnt know why i was a bit gloomy. i was day dreaming and being very vague when he asked me questions. i might also add that he has a very short fuse especially when he has to constantly repeat himself. he became pissed off bcos i was off in my little world and wasnt listening to what he was saying. we didnt talk much after that, just laid down. i soon had to go becasue i didnt want to miss my bus and neal had to go to cricket anyway. when we were saying goodbye he kissed me on the cheek instead of the lips like he always does. i got really upset becasue of that and stopped him and asked for a proper kiss. so we kissed and then when i was walking out the gate he stopped me and asked if anything was wrong or if i was pissed off with him. at this stage i still didnt know what i was meant to think and so i said no, nothing was wrong.
as i was walking to the bus stop i started crying bcos i missed him so much and wanted to take back anything wrong i had said or done in the short time wewere together. i only realised that he was object-orientated like all other guys when i was doing my homework at home about an hour ago. i dont want my neal to be like that and be more interested in games or looking for his football than spending time with me.
i just wish that men and women could live on the same planet...
today when i picked neal up from school (i had a free) we walked home and everything was ok. he was kicking a footy around and got a bit grumpy sometimes but i put it down to stress due to exams. he then kicked the footy onto his own roof to play a prank on his mum and scare her. but we realised that 1) his mum wasnt home and 2) we lost his footy. i was only there for about an hour becasue i had to go home to take care of my younger brother. instead of spending what time we had together with me, neal spent majority of his time looking for the football which he didnt end up finding. i didnt think much about it at the time but i also didnt know why i was a bit gloomy. i was day dreaming and being very vague when he asked me questions. i might also add that he has a very short fuse especially when he has to constantly repeat himself. he became pissed off bcos i was off in my little world and wasnt listening to what he was saying. we didnt talk much after that, just laid down. i soon had to go becasue i didnt want to miss my bus and neal had to go to cricket anyway. when we were saying goodbye he kissed me on the cheek instead of the lips like he always does. i got really upset becasue of that and stopped him and asked for a proper kiss. so we kissed and then when i was walking out the gate he stopped me and asked if anything was wrong or if i was pissed off with him. at this stage i still didnt know what i was meant to think and so i said no, nothing was wrong.
as i was walking to the bus stop i started crying bcos i missed him so much and wanted to take back anything wrong i had said or done in the short time wewere together. i only realised that he was object-orientated like all other guys when i was doing my homework at home about an hour ago. i dont want my neal to be like that and be more interested in games or looking for his football than spending time with me.
i just wish that men and women could live on the same planet...