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So many of my belongings are missing and my roommate and her friend who is ALWAYS there have NO idea where they've gone. The only reason I pegged them for taking my stuff, is... well... because THEY HAVE BEFORE. Admittedly, she has taken my clothing plenty of times while not only disrespecting it, but not asking and NOT putting anything back. Numerous times, I've gone into my room and my closet door is open, when I left it closed. Clothes strewn across the bed, as if somewhere were standing there deciding what to wear. I've found my coat in her bathroom floor amidst cat litter and God only knows what else.
Just recenly, while leaving the apt, I decided to see if her car was unlocked to look for anything of mine (if she doesn't lock the apartment, I KNOW she doesn't lock her car). Sure enough, I found one of my coats and a tank top. I took them back and then proceeded to let her know that my coat was missing, just as a test to see if she would lie to me about where it was. I knew she had it, I took it out of her car and she still said "I have no idea where your coat is." So now that my pots and pans are missing, the broom I got for the place is gone, my lamp is broken, and who knows what other articles of my clothing she has, I am beyond ready to leave. I've tried to address the situations nicely and ask that if she has anything to just give it back and everything will be cool. But no, denial denial denial. She's obviously NOT going to tell the truth about having anything of mine.
I can't deal with it. I'm not one to be a clothing nazi and tell you that you can't borrow anything of mine. I have NO issues with letting you wear something of mine or use something of mine, just ASK first and please appreciate it and respect it!! AND FOR HEAVEN'S SAKE, PUT IT BACK. Not to mention I have NEVER taken anything of her's OR borrowed a SINGLE piece of clothing. Nor would I without asking. It just makes me wonder what kind of slack-ass parents raised that person to not care of have any regard for others. It's basic kindergarten knowledge.
Recently she mentioned breaking the lease early, which I am all for, with the exception of whatever fees come with it. I asked her what they are and to give me AT LEAST 2 months notice if she plans to leave. I'd love to live by myself because it's quite clear that I've not had any luck with a roommate situation in my LIFE. In the even that I cannot afford that, then I have to get a roommate. Last night my friend Lisa said she'll be needing a 4th roommate in August. THAT'S perfect! Except my lease is up in June, unless we leave earlier. What do I do until August? Can you sublease a place for a month? So much to think about.
OHHHH and by the way, her friend (who has obviously moved in with us for some reason...) had her pet BOA CONSTRICTOR over and it bit Sykes in the face... We pay a monthly pet rent of $10 and paid a non-refundable deposit of $300 to have NO MORE than 2 pets there. She has two cats, her friend has her snake there, and in the course of time we've been there she's had her dog over there, and 5 other cats!! That's 9 ANIMALS to my 1. First all, we aren't even SUPPOSED to have reptiles, nor are we supposed to have MORE THAN 2 ANIMALS!!!
SWEET. I hate these PEOPLE.
Just recenly, while leaving the apt, I decided to see if her car was unlocked to look for anything of mine (if she doesn't lock the apartment, I KNOW she doesn't lock her car). Sure enough, I found one of my coats and a tank top. I took them back and then proceeded to let her know that my coat was missing, just as a test to see if she would lie to me about where it was. I knew she had it, I took it out of her car and she still said "I have no idea where your coat is." So now that my pots and pans are missing, the broom I got for the place is gone, my lamp is broken, and who knows what other articles of my clothing she has, I am beyond ready to leave. I've tried to address the situations nicely and ask that if she has anything to just give it back and everything will be cool. But no, denial denial denial. She's obviously NOT going to tell the truth about having anything of mine.
I can't deal with it. I'm not one to be a clothing nazi and tell you that you can't borrow anything of mine. I have NO issues with letting you wear something of mine or use something of mine, just ASK first and please appreciate it and respect it!! AND FOR HEAVEN'S SAKE, PUT IT BACK. Not to mention I have NEVER taken anything of her's OR borrowed a SINGLE piece of clothing. Nor would I without asking. It just makes me wonder what kind of slack-ass parents raised that person to not care of have any regard for others. It's basic kindergarten knowledge.
Recently she mentioned breaking the lease early, which I am all for, with the exception of whatever fees come with it. I asked her what they are and to give me AT LEAST 2 months notice if she plans to leave. I'd love to live by myself because it's quite clear that I've not had any luck with a roommate situation in my LIFE. In the even that I cannot afford that, then I have to get a roommate. Last night my friend Lisa said she'll be needing a 4th roommate in August. THAT'S perfect! Except my lease is up in June, unless we leave earlier. What do I do until August? Can you sublease a place for a month? So much to think about.
OHHHH and by the way, her friend (who has obviously moved in with us for some reason...) had her pet BOA CONSTRICTOR over and it bit Sykes in the face... We pay a monthly pet rent of $10 and paid a non-refundable deposit of $300 to have NO MORE than 2 pets there. She has two cats, her friend has her snake there, and in the course of time we've been there she's had her dog over there, and 5 other cats!! That's 9 ANIMALS to my 1. First all, we aren't even SUPPOSED to have reptiles, nor are we supposed to have MORE THAN 2 ANIMALS!!!
SWEET. I hate these PEOPLE.