Sep 24, 2004 15:52
Have you ever wondered how two people in a relationship can be at two totally different stages in the relationship? Whether it is something like commitment issues or whether or not the relationship is moving at your speed, or even maybe it is something like one person thinking that the relationship is one thing and the other person not knowing where that other person stands. Im a firm believer in just being in a relationship and not knowing what it is and just having fun. But I also believe that both parties must know what is expected and to what level the relationship may go...or in what direction...aka more serious...or just benefical friends. I dont know if it is just me being a girl, but when Im not sure where the person stands in a relationship (friendship,lover,fuck buddy,committment) I want to at least know or not go any farther or quit pursuing. I think I have been watching too much sex & the city...but really guys always think that they are on a different level than the girl...