http://www.todaystmj4.com/news/local/49080896.html
i found out this morning that Nate's 18 year old cousin Alivia was killed in a car accident last night. her friend was speeding and some how they ended up in a ditch; neither the driver or Alivia were wearing their seatbelts and they were thrown from the car and killed instantly. i was really close to Alivia's mom Gabe for awhile; she helped me immensely when Riley was first born and i had no clue what i was doing. it's just a really sad thing. basically to everyone i know - please wear your seatbelts, it's not that hard to do and i don't want to see this happen to anyone else that i care about.