Moving SUX!
BE PREPARED......
OK So how about un update? Wow is it ever over due.... I'm not really sure where to begin so I'll just jump right into it. Last week was probably the worst of my life, I'm so lucky to have awesome friends like Andie and Alanna to help me through this! So one day Christina woke up and said, "Hey, I just realized that I don't want a roommate because I have no idea how to interact with people other than my boyfriend, so I'll write my roommate an email to tell her..." OK so maybe she didn't do that exactly, but that whole thing did start with an MSN convo that took place between the two of us while we were each in OUR OWN ROOMS! If you don't know the whole situation, let me tell you, it started with a boyfriend who hadn't slept in his own bed since Christmas. I will be honest, in the beginning it didn't bother me, until they made a point to discuss things like finances and rent right in front of me... I made a joke about what I get out nof it and they were like well Chris does give you a ride in the morning. I decided to point out the fact that the rides only get me to Bayshore where I still have to take another bus, and two more after work. So really the rides did nothing for me.
Anyway, so that was that until there was a huge HUGE fight followed by threats of calling the cops, throwing all of Chris's stuff around and telling him to "GET OUT OF MY LIFE" Finally followed by spending the night together... So there is confused me, heading to work on the bus (as the rides have now stopped) and then at lunch time reading an email from her stating that she discovered she cannot have a roommate for various reasons, living together ruined our friendship and if I feel like I wanna move out she won't be 'hearbroken'. So I simply say that we need to talk, in person alone. We do talk and I decide that instead of prolonging thins I will move out if Chris wants to move in and take over the lease from me. They talk and its settled, Chris will take over the lease for April 1. This settlement is followed by a few nasty emails about moving out, my stuff, cleaning the room when I'm done and the last months rent issue. Then there was an email about me staying 'if I want to' until May or whenever, because suddenly its too soon for her to live with her boyfriend and her life is so busy and this is the last thing she needs right now.... Hmm after her telling me we are not friends anymore, and basically that she wants me to move out, do you think I'd wanna stay?? UMM NO! It only made me wanna get the hell out of there faster!
So after a few discussions with my sister and her ex Jay, we decided I would move back in with him... yesterday! Did I mention that all of this started (like really blew up) last Thursday? Yeah it had only been a few days. Things escalated so quickly, suddenly I was in an apartment where I felt like an intruder. She wouldn't talk to me unless it was through an email (even if we were in the hall of the apartment building, or even in the apartment) I came home on Thursday to find some of my stuff packed up, and a 3 PAGE LETTER stating that the power had been out for like 5 hours so email was definately out of the question, and that my stuff had been packed because she only had 2 days to get her life together and get things back the way they were before I moved in because she is about to start working 64 hours a week at coop and wouldn't have time to do anything... UMM HELLO I already work 64 hour weeks sometimes and this was a busy week being month end and all.. do you think I needed all this to happen right now??
Thankfully Andie was there through all of this helping me pack and move boxes, and staying over with me so I wouldn't have to be alone with them... And Alanna, you are so awesome too, Wednesday was great and I'm so glad both of you were there! I'm just sorry that you have to work with her... all of you for that matter, she really is a bit crazy.
Mike's been really great about all of this too, he was there helping me move on Saturday... he's the one who helped my dad and me move in there too.. So this was my 5th move in less than 2 years.... thats way too much. Alanna and I have now had to postpone our move in together for a while, I just can't do it again. It's too much...
Anyway, if your still with me, I'm sorry about all this, venting really helps. I don't update often enough either, this story could have been told in 3-4 posts, but you know where was the time? I've spent the last week packing and moving.... But I'm here, I'm settled and happy! Jay is happy to have me back, and Duece is super pumped that I'm here too!!! This is all for the best!
If you need to get in touch with me, the number here is 421-0895, and my cell is 799-5549, or you can always email me!!!
OK So how about un update? Wow is it ever over due.... I'm not really sure where to begin so I'll just jump right into it. Last week was probably the worst of my life, I'm so lucky to have awesome friends like Andie and Alanna to help me through this! So one day Christina woke up and said, "Hey, I just realized that I don't want a roommate because I have no idea how to interact with people other than my boyfriend, so I'll write my roommate an email to tell her..." OK so maybe she didn't do that exactly, but that whole thing did start with an MSN convo that took place between the two of us while we were each in OUR OWN ROOMS! If you don't know the whole situation, let me tell you, it started with a boyfriend who hadn't slept in his own bed since Christmas. I will be honest, in the beginning it didn't bother me, until they made a point to discuss things like finances and rent right in front of me... I made a joke about what I get out nof it and they were like well Chris does give you a ride in the morning. I decided to point out the fact that the rides only get me to Bayshore where I still have to take another bus, and two more after work. So really the rides did nothing for me.
Anyway, so that was that until there was a huge HUGE fight followed by threats of calling the cops, throwing all of Chris's stuff around and telling him to "GET OUT OF MY LIFE" Finally followed by spending the night together... So there is confused me, heading to work on the bus (as the rides have now stopped) and then at lunch time reading an email from her stating that she discovered she cannot have a roommate for various reasons, living together ruined our friendship and if I feel like I wanna move out she won't be 'hearbroken'. So I simply say that we need to talk, in person alone. We do talk and I decide that instead of prolonging thins I will move out if Chris wants to move in and take over the lease from me. They talk and its settled, Chris will take over the lease for April 1. This settlement is followed by a few nasty emails about moving out, my stuff, cleaning the room when I'm done and the last months rent issue. Then there was an email about me staying 'if I want to' until May or whenever, because suddenly its too soon for her to live with her boyfriend and her life is so busy and this is the last thing she needs right now.... Hmm after her telling me we are not friends anymore, and basically that she wants me to move out, do you think I'd wanna stay?? UMM NO! It only made me wanna get the hell out of there faster!
So after a few discussions with my sister and her ex Jay, we decided I would move back in with him... yesterday! Did I mention that all of this started (like really blew up) last Thursday? Yeah it had only been a few days. Things escalated so quickly, suddenly I was in an apartment where I felt like an intruder. She wouldn't talk to me unless it was through an email (even if we were in the hall of the apartment building, or even in the apartment) I came home on Thursday to find some of my stuff packed up, and a 3 PAGE LETTER stating that the power had been out for like 5 hours so email was definately out of the question, and that my stuff had been packed because she only had 2 days to get her life together and get things back the way they were before I moved in because she is about to start working 64 hours a week at coop and wouldn't have time to do anything... UMM HELLO I already work 64 hour weeks sometimes and this was a busy week being month end and all.. do you think I needed all this to happen right now??
Thankfully Andie was there through all of this helping me pack and move boxes, and staying over with me so I wouldn't have to be alone with them... And Alanna, you are so awesome too, Wednesday was great and I'm so glad both of you were there! I'm just sorry that you have to work with her... all of you for that matter, she really is a bit crazy.
Mike's been really great about all of this too, he was there helping me move on Saturday... he's the one who helped my dad and me move in there too.. So this was my 5th move in less than 2 years.... thats way too much. Alanna and I have now had to postpone our move in together for a while, I just can't do it again. It's too much...
Anyway, if your still with me, I'm sorry about all this, venting really helps. I don't update often enough either, this story could have been told in 3-4 posts, but you know where was the time? I've spent the last week packing and moving.... But I'm here, I'm settled and happy! Jay is happy to have me back, and Duece is super pumped that I'm here too!!! This is all for the best!
If you need to get in touch with me, the number here is 421-0895, and my cell is 799-5549, or you can always email me!!!