I figured IT out!!!! :D
So as most of you know I tend to like a lot of guys at one time. I used to think I was just an abnormal person when it came to my (non existant) dating life. However, I have come to a conclusion that seems to serve my 'issues' with guys very nicely. Yes I still like a lot of guys at any given time, but I believe I do this because the likelyhood of the one or two particular guys that I REALLY like reciprocating my feelings are slim to none, at least that has been the case before. The bad thing is, when one or more of these many crushes ends up feeling as I do towards that one or another person, I don't know what to do! I don't want to ruin my chances with the guy I really like, even though I've liked him for over a year and nothing has come out of it, by making out with one or another guy.... it didn't happen but it COULD happen..... maybe, but I'm really not sure! It would depend on whether or not I felt like there was something more than just ooooo let's make out.... ya know what i mean. oh what to do.... but overall i feel better about this multitude of crushes.... at least now I have a reason as to why I can like so many guys at once.....
I guess my question for people that may read this is do i tell these guys that I REALLY like how I feel about them? Is that always the best case? Will it ruin the relationship I already have with them???
I wish I could tell them, and know at least how they feel about me because if they didn't like me at all then yes i would be hurt but on my behalf not theirs, I would eventually move on, and find another guy to like?
i'll see
I guess my question for people that may read this is do i tell these guys that I REALLY like how I feel about them? Is that always the best case? Will it ruin the relationship I already have with them???
I wish I could tell them, and know at least how they feel about me because if they didn't like me at all then yes i would be hurt but on my behalf not theirs, I would eventually move on, and find another guy to like?
i'll see