need to rant
Go ahead and read this if you like, but be warned...this is a rant! I have a lot of shit in my mind and to avoid yelling at people I'm going to type it here. First things first, I hate it when people have a problem with things, but don't tell the people they have a problem with them and then you hear it from some third party. I would rather just have shit out in the open and talk about it, and maybe that's why I'm doing this. So things with my friends, or should I say Sean's friends, have been kind of off lately. Apparently they don't like me and him as a "package deal". Well at least I don't have to ask his permission to do something. We ask eachother if we want to do something and if the other doesn't want to, then the one person can still go do it, no big deal. We like to hang out with eachother and include eachother when we hang out with other people, we are more than just boyfriend and girlfriend, we are best friends*. I would have no reason to not invite him along when I go somewhere. If some of HIS friends, apparently that's what they are, want to hang out with just him, then fine, ask him. Sorry that me and Sean are such good friends and that we don't see eachother as the ball and chain we need a night away from. If you think you need to go out with the girls/guys to have a night away from the evil controlling nagging boyfriend/girlfriend then maybe you need to reevalute your relationship. I like hanging out with Sean and I like hanging out with other people too, why not all at once? Me and Sean have both proved we can hold our own at social gatherings and don't need to constantly be by eachother's side, but I like hanging out with him, I don't see a need for us to hang out with friends seperatly. Apparently some people don't quite see it that way.
Me and Sean are always trying to plan things and invite other people to do things, and if they don't want to because I'm around, then sorry. Why doesn't someone else plan something for a change? We aren't the only ones who spend a lot of time together either or come as a package deal. Try not blaming everything on other people. You can all be pissed at me for saying all this and think that I'm just talking about one person, but I'm not, I am refering to several people throught this whole thing. If you all want to just hang out with Sean fine, you can go to all the bars I can't go to and I'll sit in my room and think about the people who I thought were my friends also. I really gotta stop making a habit of becoming such good friends with my boyfriends friends, because they will always be his friends first and I'll always get burned. Whatever.
*all best friend statements always include the clause "other then Ellen" cuz she's always the bestest friend
Me and Sean are always trying to plan things and invite other people to do things, and if they don't want to because I'm around, then sorry. Why doesn't someone else plan something for a change? We aren't the only ones who spend a lot of time together either or come as a package deal. Try not blaming everything on other people. You can all be pissed at me for saying all this and think that I'm just talking about one person, but I'm not, I am refering to several people throught this whole thing. If you all want to just hang out with Sean fine, you can go to all the bars I can't go to and I'll sit in my room and think about the people who I thought were my friends also. I really gotta stop making a habit of becoming such good friends with my boyfriends friends, because they will always be his friends first and I'll always get burned. Whatever.
*all best friend statements always include the clause "other then Ellen" cuz she's always the bestest friend