Oct 04, 2007 22:38
Ashley, your Heart's Desire is 18/9
You want to be of service to the world. Your deepest satisfaction comes from knowing that you have advanced the cause of humanity.
Your ideals are of the highest order. You are a perfectionist. You strive to make the world a utopia; to make each person's lot in life better; to become perfect yourself. One of your challenges in life is to strive toward your lofty goals and at the same time recognize the good you are doing.
You like and are fascinated by people from all walks of life. Human nature is a lifelong study for you. You are highly intuitive, but not an especially good judge of character. You are a bit naive, as well, thinking perhaps that all people have the same values as you.
You dream of having the resources to immediately relieve the suffering of others, whether it is economic, physical, or psychological.
You are gifted with a good mind and a great deal of wisdom, which makes you a natural teacher, counselor, or healer.
As much as you desire to be of service to others, you also crave fame and the approval of the masses. Much of the energy you expend in life is directed toward putting yourself before an audience, most often as a salesperson whose product provides some social good; as a philanthropist; or an artist.
You are attracted to the arts as a vocation, especially as an actor, photographer, or writer. But whatever your profession, any involvement in the arts, even as a hobby, will provide you with a deep and lasting satisfaction.
Secretly, you dream of having a big impact on the world. Others may see this as egotism, especially when you are still young. But your concern for others is genuine. You must apply yourself in this direction in order to become psychologically whole and personally satisfied.
Your vision is on the crowds of people, which can cause you to overlook the needs of those closest to you. You need personal love as well, but have a tendency to put your needs in the background. Still, you are a loving person, and only need to be reminded to direct and demonstrate that love to those nearby. If, however, you are focused exclusively on the masses, people will perceive you as distant and a bit aloof.
You are emotional, and sensitive. You can also be moody and critical. You have high expectations for yourself and others. This can cause you much anger when your expectations are unfulfilled. One of your most important life lessons is to forgive.
Because you are striving hard to attain high ideals, you may think of yourself as superior to others. Arrogance is a trap many 9s fall into. The danger is that arrogance cuts you off from the thing you love the most: people.
Your happiness and contentment are therefore highly dependant on the ease with which you are able to serve and influence mankind.
It is the paradox of your Heart's Desire that you receive by giving. Both your material success and spiritual satisfaction are made possible through service and sacrifice to others.
Alex, your Heart's Desire is 12/3
You love a good time. You are generally happy, friendly, and outgoing. You have a gift for gab. You are very witty, creative, and playful. You inspire and entertain people. You are considered by many a great companion.
Many outstanding comedians have this Heart's Desire. You have a good mental and emotional balance and there is little that gets you down.
You have a gift for self expression and are drawn to the verbal arts -- writing, acting, singing, and poetry. You may have a great talent in one of these areas. If your creativity is blocked or suppressed, you tend to daydream and fantasize. Your imagination needs a constructive outlet; otherwise, it may run away with you.
At the same time, you may have great difficulty expressing your deeper feelings and important personal thoughts. You prefer to stay on the surface, entertaining people with your wit.
If you fail to deal honestly with your inner nature, you may succumb to compulsive talking. Such behavior may be merely a way of siphoning off emotional energy that is building beneath your surface. Your deeply felt emotional life cannot be avoided or suppressed. But you possess the talent to channel these feelings into highly creative and artistic form. Art and self-expression are your outlets.
You need discipline to make full use of your abilities. Too often, you may scatter your energies in many directions, beginning projects that are never finished and never really succeeding in anything.
You success depends on your ability to commit to your work and to see it through to completion. You have so much creativity and inspiring upward energy that you are in desperate need of an anchor. Hard work and discipline serve this purpose and bring out the best in you.
Because you are gifted with such a sparkling personality, you are tempted to stay on the surface and play with life. You are confident and love the attention others give you, but these characteristics can lead to vanity and self-absorption.
You have the potential to live a very full and successful life thanks to your talent for artistic self expression. The key to your success is a balance between the creative forces and self-disclose.
Your Heart's Desire's compatibility is 9 and 3
This aspect of the chart, Alex and Ashley, reflects excellent compatibility between the two of you. The three and the nine can form a strong unity, one that often lasts for a very long time - if not forever.
They represent archetypes that are almost mythical in their romantic bond. Lots of stories of endless patience and self-sacrifice could be told about this unity. And what makes this so surprising is the fact that this is possible even though both numbers are considered self-centered, even egocentric at times.
Alex and Ashley, you both have powerful imaginations and intense inner lives, and that makes the two of you creative, albeit in very different ways. Alex has a unique, somewhat offbeat originality, and expects life to be full of unexpected events and turns. Ashley, in turn, likes to manipulate the environment until everything is harmonious. Ashley has the talent to combine colors and materials to create beauty in a disciplined manner. Alex appreciates the way Ashley seems to be able to control events and surroundings, while Ashley envies the easy manner in which Alex accepts, and takes advantage of, whatever life has to offer. This brings balance to your relationship.
Alex, your three in this part of the chart is often compared to the sun: you are warming and comforting to everyone, inspiring and uplifting to all. Ashley, the number nine you carry is the most idealistic and self-sacrificing number. Like the three, it offers its love freely and generously.
Although they are both loving, generous and worldly numbers, they can never forget for a moment that they are at the center of whatever they dispense.
So, they can sometimes conflict, in particular when both are vying for the same limelight. In such circumstances, they are like politicians in an election run-off. Even if, privately, they respect and like each other, they will try to take away the attention and spotlight from their partners. They can become very competitive, in which case, just like politicians, they will do anything to win, even start throwing dirt at each other if they feel justified.
But that is pretty much the only area where the three and the nine combination may encounter problems. This is, therefore, where you, Alex and Ashley, will have to be careful. Don’t become competitive. Don’t feel you have to put down your partner in order to elevate yourself. Instead, if you find that in social situations you compete with each other, take an honest look at yourself and acknowledge it. In essence, this number combination shows great compatibility in this aspect of the chart. Avoid competition and instead invest in building the caring, romantic, life-long unity that comes so natural to you.