Sep 30, 2009 00:46
I like my friends. I like that my friends can be friends with my other friends :D (confusing enough?) I can't thank them enough for being the people I care about. So thank you guys!
But I must say, I was having a discussion with a good friend of mine and it opened up my eyes on how to view people. I haven't had the problem before, at least, I don't think I had to deal with it because I thought the person I knew was a great guy (which he is.) This is not a dis to anyone but something I've observed with the people I've met.
I've met a lot of people at cons and through social networking. Furs and non-furs. Most of the time, I have met great people that continue to be my friends :) Then there are those that I would gladly like to disregard and brand them as pricks and assholes. Those would be the fakers and the snobs.
First the fakers.
These are people who put up a front and pretend to like you. They are the kind of people to use you while pretending to like you. And after you're gone, they'll snicker and bitch behind your back until you come back. Then they'd like you all over again! Isn't that something? HUH?! If you can't be a regular person and be honest... then please screw off. People don't need to be manipulated by stupid shit like that. It just goes to show how much of a good friend/person you really are! Which... they aren't :D AWW!! That must suck!
I've heard my friends talk about people like that. It's funny... because I didn't want to believe it. I like to think the people I met/know are genuinely honest. But nope! Surprisingly, the fakers are interesting people. Interesting in that they can be figured out/noticed from just meeting them. They're shallow people. Nothing much to them. I guess they're not that good at faking when people can figure them out on the spot. I was surprised and disappointed. Crushed would be the word.
Secondly the snobs.
Oh the snobs! I have to deal with them at work. Not only that, also outside of work. It's great you have things going for ya. I'm happy for ya. But I'm not happy when you start to look down at people and shun them like they're nothing. So what if they're not at the same social standing as you? They're still great people. I have a hard time understanding that mindset. Most of them come from the same upbringing as the average person (ie. working middle class, lower-middle class, family troubles, etc.). Like... you came from the same class/situation I had lived. Just because you got out of it and have more money doesn't give you that right to look down on people. You forgot where you came from. You sold yourself to be this giant fucking prick! That's great! GOOD FOR YOU! I hope you like living your life as a shallow prick! No one's better than anyone. I like to enjoy being with people for just being themselves. What does it matter what their social standings are? Does that automatically affect your compatibility with people? Does it matter if their your friend? Is that how fucking shallow you are? Loser.
There was a fur that said something at a con once. I thought this was disgusting... there was a cheer going on with a bunch of furs. It was a sponsor's event. This person said the rudest thing ever... he raised his cup and cheered to this "To furs... with money!"
WOW! Absolutely amazing! YOU'RE A BALLER! It's ok though... the guy was ugly and looked like a furry faggot from CSI who fucks plushies :D It's too funny! That some idiot would go and say something like that at a fucking con! WOOPTY FUCKIN DOO! CONGRATULATIONS! You're the biggest moron ever :D
I like people for being people. Social standing or not... what does it matter? To all the fakers and the snobs, please stop. You're only making a bigger ass out of yourselves. You're just as fucked up, if not more, than the rest of us. It's entertaining to live that lifestyle, but I wouldn't sell myself to be a prick and use or even snob people in my life.