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[artangel82]

Well, Mark called. He is not coming up because he his tired so he is going to hang out with his friend Cindy. I told him he was going to have to come up because I can not come down bc I have no money nor the gas to even get down there. He asked me something and he put a word in it but I forget or why i was acting that way. I was thinking well if

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Cindy, huh?

[anonymous]

He's choosing to spend time with another girl instead of seeing YOU, his girlfriend??? When in the world did that become acceptable behavior? Personally, I feel that in a healthy relationship there should be mutual respect that would prevent one from agreeing to let the other spend time ALONE, in a date-like setting, with someone of the opposite sex. In a group? Well, that's cool. BUT.... not alone. Krystle, this situation does not sound good at all. PLEASE, PLEASE, don't let this continue. This is more of the disrespect I was talking about earlier. What makes you think that he isn't cheating on you with this girl?? (I'm assuming a girl since I don't know anyone male named Cindy!) I'm just hoping that this guy isn't using you for sex, but I have a bad feeling that maybe he is. I hope I'm wrong about him. Also, the fact that he NEVER wants to put in the time to drive to see you should make you realize that he's not pulling his weight and he doesn't have the respect, energy, or desire to put enough effort into the relationship to make it work. Sadly enough, I know this situation because I've been there... no effort towards the relationship, verbal abuse... it's all a bad sign that he's not the ONE. I know you probably feel like he is, I thought that too when I was in those situations - I was just dumb enough to have it happen to me TWICE. But, believe me, once it's over and you get the first 3-4 weeks done without him, you'll wonder why you ever stayed together - especially once you find someone that is everything he's not. Good luck working this out!

Re: Cindy, huh?

[artangel82]

Cindy is his friend...I have personally not met her. I know she is just a friend. And sometimes you just have to have trust in the other person. But see if i would say anything..he would say that I was controling bc he could not go out with his friend....sooo i don't know...

Also.....he would say that he pulls his wieght in the relationship by when i go down there he pays for my meals and helps me with some gas money to go back up......

He thinks I should come down all the time...but since i can't work right now...it is like how do i come up with the money...sometimes i have sold some of my stuff to even get money to go down there......

If I may ask who is this?....

Re: Cindy, huh?

[artangel82]

yea...i wanted him to come up but i can't really say anything about cindy. bc I have a friend and he is a guy. I have known him for 5 years now. We go out every week or so and hang out and just talk about what is going on and go to a movie.......