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I love my life with Mike. Its true.
I'm debating whether to say anything, but since it really does bother me I'm going to do so. I am well aware that many of you encouraged Mike not to get back together with me. I partially understand why, I do. But really, you are supposed to be my friends and so it hurts my feelings. And really most of the people who did say something to him are people who don't even know me that well and really had no right to even form an opinion on the subject.
Here's what I need people to understand:
-Even though I dated someone else while Mike and I were broken up that does not mean that it was completely my fault the break-up happened in the first place. I know that labels me as the bad guy, but the seperation was mutual. Remember that.
-Everyone makes mistakes. Especially when they're 20. I can think of a few of you who bounce from relationship to relationship getting back together over and over and somehow no one talks shit about you so I don't see why it has to happen to me.
-The seperation was a good thing for our relationship. Even married people get seperated. And they do end up back together more often than you'd think.
I wish I could say I don't care what you think but I do. I ended up being really upset yesterday because I felt so judged by my "friends" who don't even find the time to call me like, once a month. I just want everyone to be happy for us. I think the people closest to me are, but the rest is just bullshit. Both Mike and I have been punished long enough for what we've been through. And now we know we belong together. So give it (even the jokes) a rest. I feel terrible for what we've been through but now I'm just happy we've figured it out. Okay? Okay.
I'm debating whether to say anything, but since it really does bother me I'm going to do so. I am well aware that many of you encouraged Mike not to get back together with me. I partially understand why, I do. But really, you are supposed to be my friends and so it hurts my feelings. And really most of the people who did say something to him are people who don't even know me that well and really had no right to even form an opinion on the subject.
Here's what I need people to understand:
-Even though I dated someone else while Mike and I were broken up that does not mean that it was completely my fault the break-up happened in the first place. I know that labels me as the bad guy, but the seperation was mutual. Remember that.
-Everyone makes mistakes. Especially when they're 20. I can think of a few of you who bounce from relationship to relationship getting back together over and over and somehow no one talks shit about you so I don't see why it has to happen to me.
-The seperation was a good thing for our relationship. Even married people get seperated. And they do end up back together more often than you'd think.
I wish I could say I don't care what you think but I do. I ended up being really upset yesterday because I felt so judged by my "friends" who don't even find the time to call me like, once a month. I just want everyone to be happy for us. I think the people closest to me are, but the rest is just bullshit. Both Mike and I have been punished long enough for what we've been through. And now we know we belong together. So give it (even the jokes) a rest. I feel terrible for what we've been through but now I'm just happy we've figured it out. Okay? Okay.