Ok....I'll update. :)
So enough people have asked how Saturday night went. It went well. There were no sparks, love at first sight, or an amazing kiss good night.....but he's a really genuinely nice guy who has a good head on his shoulders and won't do a 180 on me if things don't work out. That I'm certain of. He's a college professor in Boston (points), is in the process of buying a condo (double points), and totally gets me: my personality, my quirks, and my sense of humor (major points). We had a nice dinner, walked around B&N for a hour, then went to the IMAX theater and saw V for Vendetta. I had all ready seen it, but enjoyed even more the second time around....and love the IMAX theater....must go there more often! We have a second date Friday, so we'll see where things go. I know he's excited, and he's a breath of fresh air in many ways.
Only bad thing is I'm feeling really jaded with relationships/dating. I don't know what to expect or what to look for anymore. I'm so use to being "head over heals" right off the bat that when it doesn't happen like that I think it's automatically doomed. I know what your thinking....
Despite my blah attitude lately in many respects, I'm going to give it a shot, and if it doesn't work then it wasn't meant to be.
When it comes down to it, I think at times I just get really lonely and miss the past, miss what I had and what I know exists out there in the vastness of life.
*sigh*
Only bad thing is I'm feeling really jaded with relationships/dating. I don't know what to expect or what to look for anymore. I'm so use to being "head over heals" right off the bat that when it doesn't happen like that I think it's automatically doomed. I know what your thinking....
Despite my blah attitude lately in many respects, I'm going to give it a shot, and if it doesn't work then it wasn't meant to be.
When it comes down to it, I think at times I just get really lonely and miss the past, miss what I had and what I know exists out there in the vastness of life.
*sigh*